Kasance mai kyau - taken, a karkashin wanda aka samo ba a fitar da wasu ƙarni na yara. Haka kuma, bambanci tsakanin "mutum na ainihi" da "ainihin mutum" kowa ya fahimta: wanda yake da haɗari a ƙetare a kan kunkuntar hanya - ba ku taɓa sanin abin da, kuma na biyu ya magance matsalolin ba taimakon tattaunawa. Ya yi kyau, yana da ƙanshi kamar, ba a jin kunyar fita tare da shi. Idan kuna iya kula da yaro. A matsayinka na mai mulkin, waɗannan mutanen sun raina wadancan mugayen abubuwa daga abu na farko: sun yi imani da cewa duk waɗannan shagunan maza da kuma yanayin namiji ne dabarun mata waɗanda ke neman su yi wa kansu. The "maza" masu son su rasa matsayin da ke cikin al'umma suna tsoratar da ba a kan wargi ba, don haka suna ƙoƙarin tabbatar da ƙirarsu ta kowane hali.
Koyaya, a rayuwa ta zahiri, ba za ku saduwa da wakilin "purebred" da waɗannan nau'ikan: yawancin maza sun sami nasarar haɗawa da fasali na duka biyun. Lokaci-lokaci, mai ciki "mutum ne mai ganima ga duka" diflomasiyya ", a wannan halin ya fara nuna girman kai don nuna fifikonsa. Wannan sabon abu ana kiranta masu guba. Ya yi kama da al'umma, wanda ke haifar da stereotypes game da "ainihin mutum" ya kamata ya duba da nuna hali.
A cikin manufar "ainihin maza" shagunan shaguna da kuma boutiques ba su wanzu
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Amma kusan koyaushe masoshi masola na kawo wani wahala, saboda yana ɓoye ɓoyewa, wanda yake kunyar buɗe mutane. Irin waɗannan maza suna iya yiwuwa ga kowane irin rikice-rikice, damuwa da bacin rai. Bayan wani lokaci, sun fara tsoma baki tare da danginsu.
Don haka menene ya ba wannan "gefen" mai yawan ƙira a cikin mutum? Akwai alamu shida wadanda zaku sami sauki wajen lissafa irin wannan mutumin kuma yanke shawara ko ya kamata ka shiga dangantaka da shi:
Suna raba ayyukan da ke da ƙarfi ga maza da mata
Irin wannan mutumin ya tabbata cewa mutumin yana da ayyuka da yawa da yanayi ya ba shi damar aiwatarwa, wasu kuma ba su bane. Riga mara kyau. Bayan haka, sai ya juya cewa wannan stereotype yana sanya wani mutum kafin gaskiyar cewa ba zai iya kalubalanci ba. A wani gefen, ba a amfani da mutum don yin lissafi da haramun. Irin wannan yanayin yana haifar da mummunan rarrabuwa a cikin ransa, wanda zai iya haifar da matsanancin damuwa, idan ba zai magance shi da wuri-wuri ba.
Babu wani abu da ban tsoro idan mutum ya kira maigidan, kuma baya aiki a kusa da gidan da kansa
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Watsi da motsin zuciyar ku
Ba abu bane mai namiji shine ya bata ga hawayen mata da kururuwa. Wani mutum baya son zuwa tuntuba lokacin da mace take bukatar ta yi magana, ta wannan mutumin ya zama sanadin hawan Tanger da rashin fahimta. Kuma abin da zai iya haifar da biyu, kai kanka fahimta.
Jayayya cewa pygamy al'ada ce
A cikin al'ummar maza, "ainihin mutum" dole ne yin jima'i. Bari kawai ya kasance cikin kalmomi, amma a ambaci wannan a kamfanin sauran "maza" shine yanayin alfarma.
Idan wani mutum a zahiri ya nuna wani sha'awar da ake ciki a cikin jima'i na kishiyar, shi, a matsayin mai mulkin, yana kula da lafiyarsa, kuma yana da wuya a fitar da shi ga binciken hana kariya.
Suna da kyawawan namiji na ainihi
Wasu mutane suna yin fushi a cikin kayan kwalliyar bals na farauta, batutuwan shahararrun mutane a cikin shekaru goma da suka gabata, sets kayan aikin don shawarar aboki. Kuma ba koyaushe suke buƙatar halayen "namiji" halaye. Wani mutum zai iya fuskantar kyakkyawan farauta, da kuma siketwriver ta rufe shi a cikin wani bege.
Bari ya fahimci cewa babu wani abin da ya halatta cewa fim din marubucin yana sha'awar shi ko namo Orchids.
Guji matsalolin dangi ba zai sa ku karfafa gwiwa ba
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Mace ta gaskiya ba wata doka ba ce
Yawancin lokaci wannan yanayin shine irin halin iyalai inda mutane ba su san yadda ake shirya lokaci da hada sararin samaniya tare da ayyuka a gidan ba. A wannan yanayin, wani mutum ya fara neman ƙarin 'yancin daga matarsa, koda kuwa babu wani dalilin nema.
Namiji yana da wahala kamar flint
"Mutumin ba ya kuka" - wata magana da ke haifar da lalacewa zuwa ga kwayar cutar psyche, kamar yadda wani mutum ya ci gaba da komai a cikin sa kuma baya bada motsin rai don fita. A cewar masana, sanadin da ya fi kowa sanannen mutuwar mutane a Amurka 'yan asalin kisan kai ne. Labari ne game da tunanin motsin zuciyar da za a canza shi cikin baƙin ciki, wanda yake haifar da irin wannan ƙarshen bakin ciki.