Za a yi tunanin kanka da karfin Catherine daga "babban ilhami" ko jin kunya mai launin toka "a cikin lokacin da ake ciki da rayuwar ku? Masu ilimin kimiya suna jayayya cewa fantassies na jima'i bayyana mai tsoron zurfin ji da sha'awar mutum. Na gano abin da tunaninku zai iya faɗi game da shi.
Bangarorin biyu na lambobin
Idan fitarwa na jama'a yana cikin rudu, alal misali, kuna tunanin kanku ƙwanƙwasa ko ɗan ƙaramin abin da kuke son haɓaka kanku, ra'ayin da kuke son haɓaka ƙwararrun kanku, ra'ayinku na ƙiyayya. Hakanan ana faɗa wa wannan fantasy game da juna.
Rutin Sossstel
Sau da yawa ana tunanin kanku a cikin m matsayi; Fantasize game da m, jima'i mai wahala? Wataƙila, kun gaji da al'amuran yau da kullun a rayuwa ta ainihi. Yi ƙoƙarin shakata, yi yoga ko tunani, sannan kuma sanar da sha'awar abokin tarayya. Don faɗi wani abu mai ƙarfi - yana nufin zama rabi ne don aiwatar da sha'awarku. Don fara tattaunawa game da irin wannan mubori na tsaye tare da mutum kawai idan kun tabbatar zai karba kuma ya sanya sha'awarku. In ba haka ba, tayin ko dai zai yi watsi da shi, ko abokin aikin zai buɗe.
Fantassies game da bayyanar bayyanar jama'a game da sha'awar zama mafi kyawu don kishiyar mata
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Kofi tare da madara
Fantassies game da jima'i tare da wani mutum na wani tsere magana game da sha'awarku ta lalace game da damuwar yau da kullun kuma ƙara launuka masu haske zuwa rayuwa ta ainihi. Kuna iya jin cewa rayuwar ku tana da ban sha'awa da sha'awar sababbin motsin zuciyar masu haske.
KHI, Ina kan saman
Mafarkai waɗanda ke yin jima'i da kuke amfani da wani, ta sanya hannu a cikin rayuwar da kuke jin tsoron tsara matsayin ku akan kowace tambaya ko kare matsayin gani. Shin kun fahimci makirci na "cin abinci a cikin ƙayayuwa"? Fantassies na jima'i game da lalata rahoton da mara dadi wanda ba ku tabbata ba idan kun yi kyau a gado. Kuna cikin shakka ko kuna iya isar da jin daɗin gaske ga abokin tarayya.
Fantassies na yanayin jima'i sau da yawa kare mu daga karfi na zamantakewa ko halin kirki. Wasu lokuta muna jin tsoron magana game da sha'awoyinmu kai tsaye, amma don ba da rahoto ko ba fantasy ga abokin tarayya, da aiwatar da su, ya dogara da ku.