Baby karuwa a cikin motsin rai shine kasuwancin al'ada. Wani mutum na tunani yayin da yaro ba shi da tabbas, kamar yadda psyche koyaushe yana tasiri ta hanyar motsawa ta waje. Mutu a cikin kindergarten, fushi game da iyaye saboda ƙin siyan abin wasa, whims akan karce. Yana da mahimmanci a lura a cikin lokaci cewa yaron ya fara nuna ba kamar yadda aka saba ba, kuma magance matsalar don kada ya juya cikin juyayi da rashin damuwa a nan gaba.
Abin da ke tsokanar zalunci
Masu ilimin halayyar mutum na yanke hukunci a matsayin halaye na karkatarwa daga kafa al'adun zamantakewa da yin cutar da kai ga zalunci ga tsokanar da kanta da sauransu. Masu sana'a sun raba zalunci a cikin nau'ikan biyu - madaidaiciya da kai tsaye. Tafiya kai tsaye yana nufin wani abu: zagi, barazanar, la'ana, takamaiman gestures, yaƙin. Kai tsaye ta bayyana ta hanyar "kashewa". Misali, yaro zai iya karya wasan kwaikwayon wani, jabing a kan wasu, ya tsage kansa a kan wasu. Haka kuma, yaron na iya nuna halaye da aka karkatarwa cikin martani ga mai saurin fushi - rikici ko rikici da kansa.
Sanadin tashin hankali da hanyoyin gwagwarmaya
Yara marasa hankali suna jin yanayin kewaye, kodayake yawancin manya har yanzu suna musun wannan gaskiyar. Idan yaron yana ganin iyayen suna yin jayayya, har ma da muni, lalle ne za su riƙi wannan ƙirar halayen kansa. Da alama ya zama al'ada ne don nuna ƙarfin kaina, yana yin ɗaci wasu, saboda iyaye suna yin hakan. Har ila yau, sauran mutane suna rinjayar da yaran daga muhalli - kakaninsu, abokan iyali, abokan karatun dangi a makaranta, maza daga farfajiyar. Tabbatar cewa kuna magana da yi a gaban yaro. Zai fi kyau idan a wani shekaru mai ladabi ba zai ji shakku na iyali gaba ɗaya - da psyche zai fi barga.
Kada ku rantse da yaron
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Wani zaɓi yana da tsauri mai haɗin gwiwa. Kowane mutum yana so ya zama 'yanaci ba tare da la'akari da shekaru ba. Yaro wanda yake barazanar ma'aunin rashin biyayya ga rashin biyayya ko kuma ba a hukunta shi ba, tabbas zai nuna girman kai tsaye akan wasu mutane. Tarauniyar wata shaida ce, amma koyaushe zaka iya magana da yaro a cikin sautin tsaka tsaki, kuma ba don ƙara muryar ku ba ko amfani da murya ta jiki. Gefen gefen lambarta yana da nauyi. A cikin iyalai waɗanda ke sarrafa amincin ɗan a kowane mataki, kusan koyaushe suna girma da ƙwazo da yara masu kyau kawai suke tunanin kansu "Ni". Iyaye galibi suna karkata ga wannan a cikin iyalai marasa kyau. Bari 'yancin yaro na zabi a cikin sauki ayyuka kuma a lokaci guda suna bayyana dalilin da yasa kuke buƙatar yin buƙatarku. Yara waɗanda iyayensu suna magana a bayyane kuma galibi, yawanci ba su iya yiwuwa ga tsokanar zalunci.
Zama yaro tare da aboki, ba makiyi ba
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Zabin na uku shine kayan aikin mutum na yaron. Yana da shekaru 3, 7 da 14 shekaru, Agesiveszu yana faruwa, lokacin da psyche yaron ba shi da tabbas. A wannan yanayin, ya zama dole don taimaka wajen cire damuwa ta ta hanyar madadin hanyoyin, maimakon samun fushi da fushi tare da amsa m hiserve. Kasance aboki na yara - tallafi da ƙarfafa shi, magana game da ƙauna da ba da shawarar rarrabuwa da haɗin gwiwa. Kada ka yi tsinkaye a banza, in ba haka ba yaro zai rufe kanta. Ya kamata a kira ku da ƙarfi a nan da kalmomin: "Ku taimake ni, ba na jimre ba!" Yi taɗi kuma kuyi nishaɗi don zama abokai mafi kyau, ba mafi munin maƙiya ba.