"Kyakkyawan cutarwa" shine sunan cikin matsanancin digiri na kammala kammala - ingancin da ya sa mai shi ko mai shi yayi ƙoƙari don dacewa da komai kuma komai. A gefe guda, yin ƙoƙari don dacewa ba mara kyau bane, har ma ya dace ga waɗanda suke tare da kammala da ke kusa. Tsarin kamantawa tare da cutar size shine cikakken zaɓi ga kowane ma'aikaci, saboda zaku iya rataye aikin gaba ɗaya, kuma zai iya zama, saboda ba zai iya bambanta ba. Saboda haka, a gefe guda, rayuwar mutumin da ya yi ƙoƙari ya zama daidai, yawanci yayi kama da wuta.
- Gyara fasali na tsarin kammalawa tare da cutar syndrome na fasali:
- Shafin cikakken tsabta, tsari (kuma ana iya lura da shi daga ƙuruciya - iyawa a cikin layi, dols don ci gaba, samfura a cikin haruffa na firiji, da sauransu).
- Hadarin dauki ga kowane zargi wanda zai iya kawo bacin rai, hyunsics. Kuma a kan bango wannan - kishi, lokacin da wani ya yaba.
"Niyar da komai don" Biyar ", ɗauki nauyin yaki, gwada cewa akwai ƙarfi, mutu, amma kuna yi.
- A shirye don sadaukarwar kai, duka a cikin dangantakar sirri da aiki. Hisansa, na sirri, mu "kyakkyawan" ba ya godiya, bai kare ba, ya fi mahimmanci don cimma manufa ta kowace hanya. Sabili da haka, yana shirye don yin wani abu don cutar da lafiyar ta jiki da tunaninsa, yi aiki akan sutura.
- Kwanta da kanka tare da wasu, wanda ba koyaushe yake ba - "Madalla" koyaushe ya fi muni da waɗanda suke misalta da kansu, yana motsa mata don cimma nasarar nasara.
Bada kanka don yin kuskure
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Ta yaya mutane suke samun hikima ta kyau?
Yawancin lokaci a farkon yara, lokacin da iyaye suka ba wa yarinyar cewa babu wani, da farko, ba za su ƙaunarta ba kamar haka. Dole ne ta sami yabo kuma, kamar yadda soyayya. A sakamakon haka, dole ne ya zama abin wasan hakori, ba ga zuriyar dabbobi ba, nuna hali da kyau, don koyo daidai. Yarinyar ta yi amfani da gaskiyar cewa ƙaunar iyaye ba ta da muhimmanci kuma ba ta bayyana kanta kawai lokacin da take da kyau. A matakin tunani mai santsi, an daidaita shi: Dokar mai kyau + yabo + Soyayya. Don haka, yarinyar ta girma tare da fahimtar abin da ake bukatar zama mai kyau, gwadawa - sannan zaku so. A nan, kamar yadda mai mulkin, m zargi ƙara wa yaro ta adireshin, damunsu da su, domin shi ne ba kamar sauran mutane, wani abu bai yi wani abu, ba ya cimma wata nasara. Yaron yana fuskantar motsin rai mara kyau a cikin kansa, ya yi fushi ba ya faranta masa wani abu tare da mahaifansa, kuma ya yi ƙoƙari ya tabbatar da dukkanin hanyoyin da shi za a ƙaunace shi. Yawancin lokaci a cikin iyalai inda "kyakkyawan" ke girma, ɗayan iyayen da aka ba da izini kuma yana hana yaron.
Menene kasancewar syndrome na mai aiwatarwa?
Sha'awar da ke barazanar da barazanar juyayi mai juyayi, rashin kwanciyar hankali, kyamfin jiki, cututtukan kwakwalwa. Kuma, wataƙila, abu mafi mahimmanci shine cewa mata masu ban sha'awa sau da yawa suna amfani da nasu dalilai na yau da kullun suna amfani da nasu na nasu - ma'aikata, maza, maza, '' 'budurwa, abokan aiki, gabaɗaya, duk waɗanda ba su da rauni. "Excellent" - wani m abu to abin da za ka iya juji dukan aikin, a cikin dangantaka wadannan mata suna karshe gyara ga maza, abokai, saba, ba zai iya ƙaryatãwa kowa, wani dole kullum. Samun damuwa daga ƙuruciya cewa ana iya cancanci ƙauna, ina da kyau sosai cewa babu wanda zai so ku sake faruwa, kodayake yana da matsala tare da su gajere, amma dangantaka mai guba.
Ba kwa buƙatar shi a cikin wasu yarda, sai dai don kanku
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Idan kun gano wasu alamun cutar syndrome na mai zartarwa?
- An fahimci cewa ba daidai ba ne kuma ba daidai ba ne. Babu wani abu cikakke a wannan duniyar, saboda haka kuna iya shakata da maki kawai: duniya ba ta rushe. Saboda haka, dakatar da kanmu cikin sha'awar kawo komai ga yanayin kammala.
- Bada kanka don yin kuskure. Dakatar da shi da kanka daga ciki don wasu ɓace.
- Ba lallai ne ku sadu da wasu tambayoyi da ra'ayoyi ba. Kuma, ƙari, daidaita da su. Koyi yin aiki, dangane da abubuwan da kuka yi, ba baƙi ba.
- Gane cewa ba kwa buƙatar wani yarda, sai dai don kanku. Ku kanka kai.
- Idan ba za ku iya canza kanku da rayuwar ku ba, tuntuɓi masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam don taimakon da ya cancanta.