Mun tabbata cewa sau da yawa kuna tunani game da ko kuna da makoma, kuma don me kuka zo ga wannan duniyar. Ba ku kaɗai ba ne a cikin sha'awar yin waɗannan tambayoyin, amma matsalar ita ce babu yarjejeniya game da wannan batun. Koyaya, akwai hanyoyi da yawa don samun amsar a cikin abin da Preplantation. Don yin wannan, juya zuwa hanyar logotherapy.
Kasuwancin da aka fi so na iya bayyana baiwa
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Menene wannan hanyar?
Ba kamar Sigmund Freud, wanda ya yi imani da cewa kawai jin daɗin duniya ne kawai, yanayin ilimin halin dan Adam Frankon ya kasance ya nuna bambanci, sabili da haka asalin rayuwar mutum yana cikin zabi na kyauta da alhakin rayuwar ka. Flank ya kasance wanda ya kafa logotherapy - hanyar da muke da su na psychoanalysis. A cewarsa, mutum dole ne ya zama kamar yana rayuwa a karo na biyu, kuma yanzu yana da damar gyara kurakuran da na gabata, rayuwa sabuwar rayuwa ta wata hanya daban.
Menene asalinta?
Babban aikin na logotherapy, a cewar Mahaliccin sa, shi ne nuna duniya cewa shi ne, saboda mai haƙuri ya faɗaɗa tunanin abubuwan da yake da shi.
A cewar wannan hanyar, akwai hanyoyi guda uku kawai don nemo ma'anar rayuwar ku:
- Don shiga cikin kerawa, abin da kuke so mafi yawa.
- babbar soyayya ga mutum.
- sanin ma'anar rayuwa ta hanyar wahala.
A cikin farkon shari'ar, komai a bayyane yake: Lokacin da mutum ya tsunduma cikin abin da ya fi so, shi bisa manufa bai fito da shi ba kuma rayuwa kyakkyawa ce. Idan ka yanke shawara cewa kuna son ku, zaku sami wani al'amari wanda zaku shirya don yin duk rayuwarku na iya ɗauka cewa bincikenku na ƙarshe.
Kada ku gina rayuwa kusan mutum ɗaya
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A karo na biyu, muna magana ne game da abin da aka makala ga mutum ko abu. Mutum na iya yin nutsuwa da kansa a cikin abubuwan nishaɗi masu daɗi, musamman idan wani mutum yana daidaita. Sau da yawa, a cikin irin wannan yanayin, mutane sun kasance gaba ɗaya ga rayuwar kulawa don yin ado, gano ma'anar kasancewarsa. Matsalar kawai ita ce wani mutum zai iya "overdo shi" sannan kuma duniyar ku zata iya rushewa da ma'anar wanzuwa, gaban wanda yake da yawa.
Hanya ta uku, tabbas mafi yawan rashin dadi, saboda muna magana ne game da wahalar da ba makawa. Amma a wannan yanayin akwai fa'idodi, kamar su canje-canje na ciki don mafi kyau.
Abokai da yawa da kuma waɗanda ke da sani ba zasu fahimci sha'awarku ba
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Ba dukkanin abokanmu da danginmu zasu iya fahimtar sha'awarmu don nemo ma'anar rayuwa, musamman idan kun fahimci tunaninsu game da wannan. Ka tuna, binciken don ma'ana ba ilimin dabara bane, amma hanya zuwa ga kansa.