Babu shakka, Fantasees na jima'i na iya ziyartar kowa, amma yana yiwuwa a yanke shawara kan aiwatar da su kawai na uku, bisa ga ƙididdiga. Idan dukkan abokan aiki suna dogara da juna kuma ba su da yawa dangantaka, babu wani abin da ya zama mai yiwuwa a wannan misali, ko gayyaci kamfanin da ba a saba ba ko kuma gayyata ta Uku ". Koyaya, ba duk abin da muke so ba an haife su ta halitta: raunin mutum ko gogewa daga baya na iya haihuwa a cikin tunaninmu na sha'awar da wuya a kira shi lafiya.
Jin daɗin wahala
Yin jima'i - gama tsari tsari, sakamakon wanda ya dogara da yanayin kowane abokan tarayya. A cikin kyakkyawar dangantaka, kowane ɓangaren ya fahimci cewa zai iya ba da abokin tarayya kuma wane ƙaunataccen mutum zai iya "amsa" a gado. Idan ku duka biyun ku ji daɗin tsari mai zurfi, babu wani dalilin farincewa. Matsaloli suna tasowa idan ba za ku iya samun matsanancin lamba ba daga kyakkyawar hulɗa - sha'awar tunani ko ta haifar da rashin ƙarfi a cikin yanayi mai gamsarwa. Mutumin yana buƙatar fayyace motsin zuciyarmu, kuma ba koyaushe tabbatacce ne zuwa ƙarshe fitarwa. Ana iya amfani da wannan fasalin ta wani irin masochism. A wannan yanayin, yana da mahimmanci juya zuwa ga kwararru a cikin lokaci domin kada ku rasa sha'awa da sha'awar jima'i a ƙarƙashin yanayin al'ada. Yi hankali da kanka.
Jima'i ya kawo nishadi ga duka
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Sha'awar haifar da ciwo
Juyi juyin Masolikis. Lokacin da kuka fahimci cewa kusancinku ga abokin aikinku ba ya haifar da motsin zuciyar ku da suka gabata, "haɗe" ta hanyoyi daban-daban, gami da wasannin batsa. Haɗin kai mai haɗari yana ɗaukar idan kun isa mafi yawan damuwa ko jin zafi ga abokin tarayya ko jin zafi, bari ya bayyana rashin jituwa. Wannan sha'awar tana magana game da farkon wasu rikice-rikice na kwakwalwa, wanda yake da mahimmanci a kula da aiki tare da aiki tare da ilimin halayyar dan adam don gujewa ci gaba.
Jima'i a matsayin wata hanya don ɗaukar girman kai
Wasu lokuta kasawa a rayuwa ta ainihi na iya kawo kusan rashin jin daɗi wanda ba za a iya mular da baƙin ciki ba. A cikin yanayinmu, sha'awar kewaye da abokin hamayya an dage farawa, kuma idan wannan bai faru ba, bari mu ce a wurin aiki ko a wasu fannoni na rayuwa, psyche nace yana buƙatar diyya. Sau da yawa, mutane suna samun ceto a cikin saduwa da Intervieaya: Ikon cewa "Ina bukatan IT / -N don abokin tarayya, amma a lokaci guda jin daɗi daga Yin jima'i zai samu ne kawai tare da rikice-rikicen tunani game da mahimmancinsa a kai. Kamar yadda kuka fahimta, girman kai ba zai iya riƙe ta musamman akan jima'i ba, da kuma kusanci ba a gina shi a dogaro.