Babu wanda yake ƙauna sa'ad da kwarewarsa da bayyanar kwatankwacin baki. A saboda wannan dalili, yakan faru sau da yawa a cikin iyalai: Maza sun yanke shawarar cewa matar su bai zama mafi muni kawai ba, amma har ma da kyakkyawar Inna. Yana bayyana dalilin da yasa abokanmu sukeyi haka.
Sha'awar kula da kanka
Mama ita ce mutum na farko da muke sanyawa, an haife shi. Yawancin mata suna ƙoƙarin biyan yara zuwa matsakaicin lokacin kyauta, galibi mantawa da kansu. Musamman, mama waɗanda ke kiwon yara kadai suke iya kasancewa cikin sadaukarwa. Yin amfani da wannan mama ta ba komai - daga abinci da kuma ƙarshen kashe aljihu - wani mutum ya karkata don tsammanin irin wannan halayyar daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi daga rabi. Da kyau, idan kwatancen yana ƙoƙarin jawo hankalinku kuma da gaske yana son bayar da shawarar yadda ake ƙirƙirar yanayin da ya dace. Koyaya, sau da yawa a cikin kwatancen yana kwance yana kwance cikin jarumawa, wanda ya zama tsangwama don gina dangantakar dogon lokaci.
Mama ta tsaya ga wani mutum don mutum
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Tunanin Yaro
Ilimin halin dan Adam an tsara shi ne domin hoton wani mutum yana hade da halaye 3-4. Don haka kwakwalwa ta fi sauƙi a gano abubuwan da ke gabaci abubuwan da ba a kula da su ba kuma suna ba da wata alama. Mama a yawancin rinjaye tana da alaƙa da ƙauna, kulawa, taushi da aiki tuƙuru. A hakikanin gaskiya, kowane mutum bashi da gaskiya, amma kuma mara kyau halaye. Da wuya mutane suyi sadarwa tare da Mama a cikin rayuka, sakamakon hakan a cikin tunaninsu, cikakken hoton mahaifiyar ana goyan baya. Sau da yawa ya zama matsala lokacin da aka haɗa sabon mutum a cikin dangi, da gangan yana fahimtar haruffan membobinta - daga nan fara rikice-rikice.
Halin kirki
Ba duk iyaye suka da yaro a matsayin mutum mai cikakken haƙora da dama. Idan dangi ya yi mulkin Mattriarchate da Mama gudanar da dukkan al'amuran - daga sayayya kafin mu wadatar, to yaron ya yi amfani da ikon. A kwatankwacin matsayin mama, matsayinta ya daina zama mai nauyi. Lokacin da irin wannan mutumin ya zama manya da fara dangantaka da jima'i, tunaninsa direban ba kawai don soyayya ba, har ma don tantance daidaituwa na ƙaunataccen mahaifiyarsa ƙaunataccen.
Uwar aure
A duk da haka, kwatanta tare da mahaifiyar ta fifikon ku. Misali, inna ta sami damar gina sana'a, ilimantar da yara, wasa wasanni da shirya da kyau. A lokaci guda, kuna kiyaye salon rayuwa kuma kada ku nemi haɓaka. A cikin wannan halin, muna da manyan majalisu biyu - muna ƙoƙarin ɗaukar kyawawan abubuwa na surukarta ko kuma bayyana wa mijinta su yi kama da wasu.
Kada ka rantse, ka yi misali da surukina
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