American ban dariya na 1999 tare da halartar Julia Roberts da Richard Gira "tseratar da amarya" sun shahara kuma a yau. Fim yana ba da labarin yarinyar da ta tsere daga ƙarƙashin kambi har sai ta sami ƙaunarsa ta gaskiya.
A cikin ilimin halayyar dan adam, akwai irin wannan kalmar "Amarya" Syndrome, wanda aka yi nasihu ba kawai a cikin Hollywood rayuwa ba. Wannan sihirin ba shine ilimin cututtuka ba - wannan ba cuta bane. Onlfates, wannan tsarin bayyanar cututtuka, halaye, alamomi daban-daban waɗanda ke bayyana a cikin yarinyar da, amma a lokaci guda yana tsoron shirya dangantaka. Zabi: Don haka har yanzu ban fahimta ba, sai ta ƙaunaci mutumin da ta taru a ƙarƙashin kambi ko a'a, abin da yake ganin rayuwarsa da komai, abin da yake so. Ko da a cikin fim, wani ya tsere, wanda Julia Roberts ya taka leda, Jennifer Aniston (Na farko da na farko na "abokai"), da farko kuma bai fahimci yarinyar ba, wanda ke fuskantar matsin lamba daga iyaye, yanayi, laifi Ko bashi, zai kasance a gaban bagaden tare da baƙon mata. A ƙarshe lokacin, wannan yarinyar ta fahimci cewa wani abu ba daidai ba ne a nan, ban sami tabbas ba, kuma bai sami wani abu mafi kyau ba, yadda za a tsere daga ƙarƙashin kambi.
Masanin ilimin halin dan Adam Olga Romanv
Wanene zai zama abin zargi da cewa yarinyar ta zama irin wannan? Ba tare da ɗaukar alhakin tare da amarya, wataƙila, bayan duk, iyayenta, waɗanda ba su taɓa da 'yar da ke da damar ba. Bayan haka, kowane zaɓa yana biye da alhakin, kuma saboda wannan, iyaye ne waɗanda suke shirya wa ɗan. Idan iyayen duk sun saba da warware irin wannan yaro a rayuwar irin wannan yaro, wato, marubuci, a rayuwar manya, yarinyar ba ta shirye don yanke hukunci ba. Musamman idan iyayensu suna da yawa Matan, a kowane yanayi mai yiwuwa suna tura shi ga aure, kuma ba ya fahimta ne, amma ya musulunta ne, amma ya miƙa shi ya rungumi shi kuma ya yarda ya yi aure. Kuma, idan, daga yanayi, har yanzu halayen wannan yarinyar har yanzu yana da sanarwar kansa da muradinsa a mafi mahimmancin lokacin - ranar bikin, a ranar bikin, a ranar bikin.
Wani zaɓi shine lokacin da mace ba ta da ƙarfin gwiwa. Ba ta fahimci kansa ba, bai fahimci abin da take buƙata ba daga dangantaka, daga rayuwa. Yana aiki akan stereotype - "duk mata su yi aure." Amma ko tana son ya auri kansa - ba a sani ba. Ta zama mai wuya a tsararru, har yanzu bai yanke shawara ba. Tsoron ya yi, tana jin tsoron ɗaukar shawarar da ba daidai ba. Wannan tsoratarwa ita ce ta musamman, tabbas yawancin amarya masu tunani game da ko ba su yi kuskure ba. A lokaci guda, yawancin 'yan matan da suka saba shakku suna da matuƙar aure kuma suna farin ciki da aure. Kuma wani ba zai iya jurewa da shi, kuma ya gudu. Dalilan irin wannan hali kuma wannan tsoro ba tabbas da rashin tabbas a cikin abokin tarayya. Jiyya ne abu daya kawai - Aiki tare da kanka da kuma kan alakar da aka zaba, saboda amincewa da juna ba ya rasa a zahiri.