Lokacin da kuka yi tunani game da dangantakar kyauta, abu na farko da ya zo tunanin shine rashin kulawa da ƙuntatawa a kan abokin tarayya. Koyaya, a zahiri, mutane kalilan ne suka san yadda za su yi tunani da aiki ba tare da rabi na biyu ba. A saboda wannan dalili, daga dangantakar kyauta ta zama ta dogara, inda mutum yake yi, kuma ɗayan zai yi haƙuri da halayensa. A cikin wannan kayan, la'akari da duk riba'in da kuma kwarewar dangantaka ta kyauta.
Daban-daban abokan tarayya da na gaba mai kishi
Idan kana cikin rayuwar neuriotic, wanda har yanzu yana ƙoƙarin neman abin zamba a cikin cikakkiyar halayyar mutum, to dangantakar abokantaka ba ta dace da ku ba. Babban manufa a nan wani polygamby ne wanda bai inganta cikin dangantakar soyayya ba bayan yin jima'i. In ba haka ba, ba ku cikin dangantaka kyauta, amma kawai "tare da ƙaho." Ka yi tunani idan ka shirya ka gano wanene mutumin da ya kashe maraice, ya sadu da wasu matasa kaɗai. Kodayake a cikin mafarki da tunanin hoton mace yana da kyau, a rayuwa ba ta da nisa sosai don canzawa daga ƙaunar haɗi don haɗi.
Kasance cikin shirye don fahimtar breason a matsayin ƙa'ida
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Bukatar yin komai
Ba zai yuwu a ɓoye daga abokin tarayya da kuka yi barci tare da taron farko ba bayan jam'iyyar a kulob din. Tushen dangantakar kyauta amintacciya ce da budewa da juna. Kasance cikin shirye-shiryen gaya game da cikakkun bayanai game da tarurrukan taro, idan wannan yana so na biyu. Babban burin kwarewa a gefe shine ilimin kai da adrenaline daga sadarwa tare da sabon mutum. Don haka zaku fahimci abin da kuke so ku samu daga abokin zama a gado, kuma zaku iya gano wani irin sona yana ɗayan fa'idodin da ba za a iya cikas.
Kada ku ji tsoron masu sukar
Idan mutum bai san yadda ya kare yadda zai kare nasa matsayin da ya yi jin kunya ba, ba makawa ka kasance a shirye don zargi daga wadanda kauna. Kowane mutum zai yi bayani ga budurwa, wanda ya kira a cikin dare tare da bayyanar da shi, 'Na ga dabbobinku, a kulob dinka ya zage ka kawai: Rayuwarka ce da kuka zabi.
Tattauna tare da abokin tarayya duk abin da ba shi da damuwa
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Abin da kai - ba Soz, da tilas
Duk yadda sanyi, amma wani lokacin zai iya ganinku cewa abokin tarayya ya sauya zuwa ga halartar izini kuma saita cikin kabari. Kishi da fushi sune motsin zuciyarmu na yau da kullun, babban abu a cikin lokaci don murkushe su. Anan ku za ku zama mafi kyawun ilimin halayyar dan adam: Ku yi tunanin dalilin da ya sa kafin ku gane barazanar, kuma yanzu sun zama cikin damuwa. Haɗaɗɗaɗɗaɗɗa kyauta suna ba da shawarar sadarwa ta yau da kullun don gano rikice-rikicen ban mamaki da kuma magance matsalar a fagen karewa - wannan ma bukatar a shirya.