Kamar yadda kuka sani, mace mace tana ƙaunar kunnuwa, amma wani mutum ba zai iya zama mallakin abin da ya faɗi ba. Kuma sau da yawa a cikin sadarwa, ba mu sarrafa na fisti na fisti a duk, wani lokacin zaku iya cutar da mutum sosai cewa hutu zai zama cikin bambanta. A yau mun yanke shawarar kawo fewan jumla waɗanda za su gudu da wani mutum mai kyau, ku mai da hankali ga abin da za ku faɗi abokin tarayya wanda yake ƙera abokin tarayya.
"Ku ba ni, zan jimre wa kaina
Duk mun karanta gunagunan mata a cikin cibiyar sadarwa kamar: "My, ya ce," 'yan mata, yadda za a sa shi hawan gado? " da sauransu idan kun sami kanku cikin wannan yanayin da mutum yake cikin sauri don samun sauri don bayyana matsalolin kamar: "Zan iya ma'amala da shi kalmar kamar:" Zan iya ma'amala da kaina, hankali daga gare ku? " Ya kasance haka? Idan amsar ku tabbatacce ne, bai kamata ku yi mamakin halayen wani mutum da a wani lokaci ya yanke shawara ba, "in ji ta, me yasa komai zai iya gwadawa?"
Maza suna da hankali ga kalmomin ku
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"A ina kuka daɗe?"
Wani mutum mai ƙauna koyaushe zai raba wa matarsa abin da ya faru a ranar. Koyaya, idan kun tashi a bakin ƙofar a cikin hali kuma ka yi tambaya: "Ta yaya za ka yi latti, ranar aiki za ta ƙare da 'yan awanni biyu da suka gabata, Na ƙidaya." Yaya kuke so? Mutumin, kasancewa cikin kyakkyawan wurin Ruhu, cikin sauri yana fuskantar fart fart, kuma ko da ya yi shirin faranta maka da wannan maraice, a cikin kalmomin rashin yarda za ka kashe kowane irin. Babu bukata. Guji ikon sarrafawa.
"Da kyau, na ce"
Irin wannan magana ya dace kawai don yarinyar yarinya, mace mai girma wanda ke aiki kamar aljanna, ko da yake da girmama ƙaunataccen fushi: wato mutum baya yarda lokacin da aka yi la'akari da shi wawa, wato, Kuna watsa labarun abokin gaba da ta yi, don haka ya ce: "Bayan haka, sai ka kasa kai mai wayo, har yanzu akwai ma'ana daga gare ku." Don haka suke jin mutane.
"Lafiya, yaya kuke sumbata / Hug, ba ku san yadda ake"
Maza ba za su iya nuna yadda suke ji ba kamar yadda muke so, bayan duk, sun samu amfani don kiyaye dukkan yara su canza kusancin mutum don ƙaunar dangantaka. A koyaushe zargi game da ikon wani mutum ya nuna yadda suke ji a gare ka na iya kashe muradin yin wani abu a mizali. Ko da kuna tunanin haka, ba shi da kyau sosai don muryaya shi, kowace budurwa za ta faɗi. Idan wani abu bai dace da kai ba, ka nuna da koyarwa, in ba haka ba mutum zai iya koyo daga wani.