Kafin kwanan wata, komai na cikin juyayi, saboda ba a san shi ba fiye da yadda zai faru. Akwai yanayi lokacin da kwanan wata baƙin ciki ne sosai, kuma ga wannan kuna buƙatar shirya. Babban abu shine don yarda da gaskiyar cewa kowa na da hakkin yin kuskure, taron da bai dace ba zai iya nufin ƙarshen rayuwa. Za mu yi ƙoƙarin taimaka muku tsira da wata rana wacce ba ta cika tsammaninku ba.
Kada ku ji tsoron sake fasalin lamarin
Taron mutane biyu sun hade don gina dangantaka cike da sauran lokuta, musamman ranar farko. Babu wani mummunan abin da kuka yi tunanin da gaske kuna sha'awar abokin tarayya, wanda yake cikin damuwa - da ita zaku nuna ɗan adam da rashin haɗari. Wataƙila abokin tarayya yana jin irin wannan ji, kuma zai zama da sauƙi a bayan maganarka, wanda zai ba ku damar shakata.
Kwanan wata koyaushe cike take da lokutan m
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Tunani
Matsowa da muke koya mutum, da ƙarin lokacin da ba a tsammani ba suna tsammanin mu, kuma ba koyaushe yake jin daɗinmu ba. A ce kun sami masaniyar kyakkyawa a cikin kwatankwacin yanayi a bude na nuni, kuma a ranar da ya zo ga wando na wasanni. Kada ku yi sauri don yin manyan idanu kuma suna matse don tsarkakewa, wataƙila mutum ya kasance yana yin sutura a rayuwar yau da kullun. Ko kuma, idan mutum yayi shiru yayin da kuka zuba masa rai, baya nufin yana da wasu karkatacciya wanda yake buƙatar lokacin da zai saba muku.
Taimako idan zaka iya
Don jan hankali daga tunani mara kyau, yi ƙoƙarin ƙarin koyo game da sabon masaniya. Tambaye shi tambayoyi, kawai ba na sirri bane, wataƙila mutum zai gaya muku wani abu wanda zai ba ku abin da zai nuna muku abin da zai yi ma'amala da shi.
Idan mutum ya fara korafi zuwa dangi ba iyaka ga danginmu ba, abokai ko wani irin matsala a rayuwa, in ya yiwu, yi kokarin taimakawa idan mutum yana da mahimmanci a gare ku. Gayyatar hanyar da zaku iya gyara tare da dangi, amma ba ta cikin umarnin, amma gaya mani yadda kuka yi. Bayan haka, ya kamata a daina korafi kuma zaku iya sadarwa tare da wasu batutuwa.
Yi tunani idan kuna son gina dangantaka da wannan mutumin
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Kada ku zuriya
Wannan kawai kwanan wata ne na 'yan sa'o'i, tunani game da wannan ba da daɗewa ba zai ƙare kuma kada ya nuna rashin damuwa ko rashin jituwa. Idan ka je gidan abinci, mai da hankali kan abin da kake yi oda yanzu, kuma kada ka zauna a kan abokin tarayya. Yi la'akari da taronku a matsayin wani kwarewa, damar don nuna wa kanmu damar sadarwa tare da mutane daban-daban.
More walw
Kada ku kula da kwanan wata da ba ta ƙare ba, yi ƙoƙarin kunsa komai a cikin wargi lokacin da kuka gaya muku abokai. Kada ku bari wasu mutane suna tunanin tunanin cewa kuna da lokacin da matsala a rayuwa, idan ba ku son ranar ban mamaki a cikin da'irar abokanka da abokanka.
Biya komai a cikin wargi, kuma kanka kada ku fahimci wannan rashin nasara a matsayin bala'i. Yana da mahimmanci a lokaci guda ba don zagi mutumin da kuka kwana a wannan maraice ko rana, wargi a kan lamarin ba. Kuma, mafi mahimmanci, ƙaramin zargi, idan ku da gwarzonku na Dating ɗinku ya samu wadatattun abubuwa gama gari.
Gwada kada ku nuna haushi
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Sauka da wuri
Akwai lokuta idan mutum ba shi da daɗi, sannan kuma babu mai ladabi ya ceci. Haka kuma, wannan rashin jituwa na iya bayyana riga a cikin Dating ɗinku, in ba haka ba za ku tafi ko'ina tare da wannan mutumin.
Kuna iya gama kwanan wata game da wannan magana: "Ku saurara, na yi nadama, amma ban ga nan gaba tare da ku ba, don haka ba na son in kashe lokacinku, don haka sai mu ɓarke?" Wannan kalmar ba za ta zama m kuma a sarari za ta fahimci cewa ba a daidaita ku don ci gaba ba.
A kowane hali, kar a dauki ƙwarewar da ba ta ƙare da zuciya ba - wannan ba ƙarshen duniya ba ne, amma kawai incompativity tare da mutum.