Ka tuna fim ɗin "mafi kyawun kyakkyawa"? Bai yi nisa da gaskiya ba. Babban Heroine na fim ya so ya zama mafi kyau, ko da yake akwai hanyoyin da aka cire. Babban ra'ayin fim shine cewa kyawawan zane ya ta'allaka ne a cikin halinmu, a cikin mu, kuma ba a cikin bayyanarmu ba.
Masanin kan canjin yanayin Christina Män-lakyani
Ayyukan latsa kayan aiki
Don zama mafi kyan gani, ba lallai ba ne don zuwa ga salon salon. Haka kuma, irin waɗannan hanyoyin na iya "girgiza" a gaban shugabanci. Don bayyana kyakkyawa, kuna buƙatar tono mai zurfi fiye da abin da ke bayyane a farfajiya. Tabbas, kuna buƙatar kulawa da kanku da kulawa, amma kada ku kawo shi ga masu tsattsauran ra'ayi kuma ya zama irin manufa. Mulina na kaina a cikin wannan lamari ba cikakke bane, amma ta lalata.
Me yasa mutane suke da kyan mana?
Bincike ya nuna cewa muna son mutane ba su da fasalin da suka dace na fuskar, amma murmushi, hankali, farin ciki da jin cewa tare da mutum mai sauki ne. Muna ƙaunar mutum don yadda muke ji kusa da shi. Misali, a jami'a, Swansea ta gudanar da gwaji: Masana kimiyya sun nuna mahalarta a hotunan mutane masu fuskoki daban-daban. Mutanen da fuskoki waɗanda suke da daɗi, a mafi yawan lokuta an kimanta kimantawa fiye da waɗanda ba su da jin daɗi. Wannan sabon abu ya lura da masanin kimiyyar Italiyanci Jacomo Rizolaytti, wanda ya bude thean madubi neurons 30 shekaru da suka gabata. Idan muka kalli mutane cikin yanayi mai kyau, muna karanta motsin zuciyarsu kuma mu maimaita - don haka don kasancewa kusa da mutum cikin kyakkyawan yanayi.
Idan muka kalli mutane cikin yanayi mai kyau, muna karanta motsin zuciyarsu da maimaita
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Marubucin da mai bincike ya breen Brown yi ƙoƙarin gano dalilin da yasa wasu mutane suke da alaƙa da mutane fiye da wasu. Ta lura cewa akwai abubuwa uku a nan. Na farko - a cikin irin wadannan, duk abin da suke, suna karfafa cewa sun cancanci soyayya. Na biyu shine karfin gwiwa don nuna kanka ga duniya kyauta. Na uku shine sha'awar zo hulɗa kuma ɗaukar matakin farko, koda bamu san yadda za mu yi mana ba. Irin wannan ƙarshe: don zama mafi kyan gani, kada ku ji tsoron zama kanku. Don wannan kuna buƙatar yin gaskiya da kanku, kuma da ƙarfin hali.
Mutane suna jin arya, a lokaci guda suna jawo hankali da gaskiya. Duk da gaskiyar cewa muna jin tsoro, muna son sanin gaskiya - duka kansu da kuma game da wasu mutane. Muna zaune a duniyar fuskoki, arya da Photoshop, muna da karancin yanayi, don haka ba a yaba masa sosai ba sosai.
Daukar kanka, zaku cimma ƙarin
Hypenotheraurerpist na Burtaniya Marisa ies yana magana ne game da ra'ayin cewa kuna da kyau kamar yadda kuke. Sun yi imani da cewa dukkanin matsalolinmu suna faruwa ne daga abubuwan da kansu, daga kin kansu. Kuma idan kun shawo kanka da kanka ka isa sosai, to, ka fara canje-canje a rayuwa zai fara.
A lokacin da Marisa ya yi a babban bikin, daya daga cikin masu daukar hoto ya tambaye mata tambaya: "To, da kyau, ba zan yi karya sosai ba, ba zan zama mai kyau sosai ba? Shin ba zan dauki kaina a hankali ba, katifa? ". Marisa ya amsa da cewa, da ban mamaki sosai, yawanci muna kwance a kan gado mai matasai kuma ba mu yin komai saboda ba mu yi imani da kanmu ba, amma ba akasin haka ba ne. Lokacin da muka ɗauki kanmu kamar yadda muke, muna da ƙarfin hali don yin wani abu.