A matsayinka na mai mulkin, idan aka batun Fantasashen jima'i, ana la'akari da mafarkin maza kawai, kuma ba a rarraba mata ba. Don dawo da adalci, zamuyi magana game da mafi kyawun karin mata da aka saba da cewa ba kowane zai yanke shawara da murya ba.
Yana da wuya a faɗi a cikin sha'awoyinsu
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Swingers jam'iyyar
Duk yadda dangantaka ta kyauta ba ta shafar al'ummarmu ba, an ziyarta kawunan mata game da musayar abokan hulɗa. A cewar masana, kamar haka mace ta psyche yana rage matakin kwarewar jima'i, lokacin da aka hana wani abu, koyaushe yana da ban sha'awa a gwada. Koyaya, wannan baya nufin cewa matar ta shirya don cika duk abin da ke faruwa a cikin tunaninta - Wasu lokuta natsuwa sun kasance rudu.
Baƙo a gado
A cikin jama'a na maza, bazuwar haɗin kusan koyaushe yana samun yarda, amma ga mata, kamar yadda suke tunanin shi da rashin kulawa. Me zai ce? Koyaya, ta wannan hanyar, matar tana nuna zango, suna ƙoƙarin tunanin wane irin abin mamaki da irin wannan roba zai kawo. Musamman ma sau da yawa, irin wannan fantasy ya zo ga matan aure waɗanda suka rasa tsananin zafin abin mamaki tare da abokin gaba, wanda suke bin rayuwa ta dindindin. A wasu halaye, matan baya ci gaba da fantassies, amma idan murƙushe suna samun babban jin zafi sosai, mace na iya yanke hukunci a kan cin nasara.
Ba a karfafa abokan musayar ba
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M + f + m
Juya ban mamaki mace w + m + w. Yarinyar na iya rashin kulawa da abokin gaba na dindindin ko ƙishirwa don sabon abin mamaki cewa mutumin zai iya bayarwa. Koyaya, yana da wuya a yanke shawara game da gwaji tare da baƙon da wahala, don haka mata galibi suna ba maza ne irin wannan wasan. Abin da ke ban sha'awa lokacin da abokin aikin dindindin ya shiga cikin wannan nau'in kusancin, da wuya wanda ya ɗauki ta? Amma a nan duk ya dogara da matakin kula da masu kula da ma'aurata.
A zamanin Intanet yana da wuya a ɓoye wani abu
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Yar saurayi
Tsoffin matar ta zama, da ƙari yana buƙatar tabbatar da nagarta. Bugu da kari, mata da yawa ba su da iko a gado, kuma tare da ƙaramin lover don cimma nasarar mamaye rinjaye. Ko da yake mafi yawan mace sau da yawa mace bata da jimfa daga abokin zama na dindin, don haka kamannin mutum mai rauni, wanda ta yi iya haɗuwa sosai a zahiri a cikin kai.
Voyeurism
Tare da isowar Intanet a rayuwarmu, mun sami sauki mu kula da mamayewa na sarari: Yana da wuya a ɓoye wani abu yanzu. Haka kuma, wannan bangare ba ya shafar sit mai zurfi. Mata yarda cewa irin wannan rudu wani abu ne kamar "batsa a ainihin lokacin" - suna kallon tsari da kuma tunanin shi kawai a cikin tunanin shi shiga.