Shin kun yi tunani game da gaskiyar cewa jin rashin fahimta a cikin iyawarsu na iya zama abokin zama ma abokan cin nasara? Psychologist ne kiran wannan sabon "Synedrome" Sundoborus Syndrome "- mutum ba ya iya tantance nasarorin da ya samu, komai yabo da yarda bai karba ba. A wani ma'ana, za a iya kwatanta wannan yanayin tare da kammala duka, amma masoya na yin komai "a kan cikakken" sau da yawa suna fahimtar abin da suke yi, waɗanda ba za a iya faɗi game da "ontos" ba.
Ta yaya aka haife shi "ƙwararrun masu rarrabuwar hankali
Masana sun yarda cewa rashin tabbas kowane irin gyaranmu game da ƙuruciyarsa: Iyaye da sauran maniyyi, waɗanda za su iya yin wahayi zuwa gare ku gaba ɗaya, waɗanda za mu iya tsammani tare da ku. Kamar yadda kake, sananne, lura da kirkirar kirkirar yara da kuma wasanni daban-daban, ra'ayin zama mafi kyau yana da himma fiye da sauran - ta wannan hanyar a cikin yaron da ake zargin yana da sha'awar fi, koyaushe da farko. Yana aiki da nisa daga kowane ɗa, kuma idan mutum zai turawa a rayuwar obows, to, wani yaro zai juya zuwa ga wani balaga, idan ba ya sami tabbacin wannan yanayin Mutum baya yarda da sakamako mai kyau - mutane da cutar synorom suna da matukar damuwa da zargi.
Shin zai yuwu yin gwagwarmaya da yanayin da ke hana gina kyakkyawan aiki
Zai yi wuya a magance yanayin rashin tabbas. Tabbas, ya fi kyau a sami shawarwarin kwararru wanda zai bincika lokacin da ba shi da kyau tare da ku, wanda ya hana ku cikin ɗaukar kanku kamar ƙwararre, duk da haka zaku iya ƙoƙarin fahimtar kanku.
Koyi don karɓar nasarorinku
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Bada kanka mafi
Kowannenmu kuskure ne da kuskure, yana buƙatar ganewa da karɓa kuma karba - babu mutumin da ya aikata komai daidai. Da zaran kun fahimci cewa kammala kammalawa kawai a kanka, zaku kasance a kan hanyar "gyare-gyare dole ne a yi aƙalla da kyau, amma kuma Ya kamata a rage zargi mai ƙarfi, in ba haka ba ka hadarin zama ban da rashin tsaro don samar da yanayin neurotic.
Kada ku ji tsoron raba tare da ƙaunatattun
Babu wani abu da zai taimaka wajen sanin mafi yawan lokuta na rayuwa yayin da tallafawa kusancin mutane. Koyaya, yana da mahimmanci a zaɓi don zaɓin mutane da gaske wanda kuke da ƙarfin gwiwa, in ba haka ba matsalolin ku na iya zama yankin na hannu idan mai zuwa kamfanin ku zai iya kiyaye harshe. Amma aboki na kusa shine cikakkiyar mai sauraro. Nemi taro kuma raba tare da gogewa, wataƙila abokinka zai bayar da shawarwari wanda zai canza halinka mai mahimmanci ga lamarin. Koyaya, yi ƙoƙarin ƙoƙarin da ba a cika ƙauna ba - san gwargwado a komai.
Yi rikodin duk lokacin rayuwa
Wannan yanayin ana amfani da shi koyaushe wannan dabarar, wanda ke ba da damar mai da hankali ga nasarar su kuma mu fahimci su. Zaɓi ranar da ba ku buƙatar yin sauri a duk inda kuma ku zauna don yin jerin abubuwa: ku tuna duk mafi mahimmancin rayuwar ku, mafi yawan lokuta, zaɓi nasarorin ƙwararru. A daidai lokacin da zaku lura da shakku, bi ta hanyar wadannan stricters kuma zaku lura da yadda yanayin rashin tabbas zai fara zuwa bango. Gwada!