Duk da abin da ya dace da rayuwar jima'i, kawai 10% na yawan maza na mace na ƙasarmu sun gamsu da ingancin jima'i. Mafi yawan lokuta, 'yan matan suna bayyana matsaloli na kusa da fasali na jikinsu, kodayake a zahiri dalilan suna iya zama da yawa, ciki har da lamarin na iya zama cikin abokin tarayya.
Matsaloli tare da masu ƙwararrun masu gamsarwa sun kasu kashi manyan kungiyoyi masu yawa - ilimin kimiya. Yi la'akari da mafi mashahuri dalilai wanda mutane da yawa zasu iya koyon kansu kuma suka dauki matakan da suka dace.
'Yan mata sun fara zargin kansu ba tare da fahimtar matsalar ba
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Yarinya ba ta dauki jikinta ba
Ka'idojin kyakkyawa waɗanda ke jefa mu a zahiri a zahiri mujallu da kuma shirye-shiryen talabijin, a hankali, amma tabbas sun kashe darajar kansu kusan kowace mace. Ya zo batun cewa mata sun fara ganin abin da ba ainihin ba: kammalawa kenan, alamomi masu shimfiɗa sun juya zuwa ƙarshen duniya. Kamar yadda kuka fahimta, wannan matsalar tana da alaƙa da tunani, don haka maimakon cin abinci marasa amfani da yawa a kan kwastomomi, 'yan mata tare da matsalar muryar mata, da kuma mafi kyawun jima'i wanda zai yi aiki don matsalar don haka Adireshinka ba su juya azabtarwa ba.
Gwada kada ku shagala da tunani mai zurfi.
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Yarinyar ba ta san komai ba game da jikinsa
Na biyu mafi mashahuri dalilin shine "bacci" maki erogenous. Wannan yawanci yana faruwa ga mata waɗanda suka fara rayuwar jima'i na jima'i ko lambobin jima'i da wuya.
A irin waɗannan halaye, m wasan motsa jiki yana taimakawa da kyau, wanda ke motsa tsokoki na wajibi, la'akari da wannan batun da muhimmanci sosai, "gano" kanka.
'Yan mata suna neman sarrafawa
Wani kuma "yadudduka", wanda kuke buƙatar gwagwarmaya, idan ba ku son ciyar da rayuwata a cikin yanayin rashin gamsarwa. Muna da yawa game da yadda muke kallo a cikin wani ko wani yanayi, wanda kuma ya shafi yin jima'i: maimakon mayar da hankali kan batun goshinsu ko kan ko ba haka ba. Koyi don barin kanka ya tafi a cikin waɗannan lokacin idan abokin ya zaɓi ku, to, an tsara ku cikin duk "hotuna".
Tunaninku ya wuce ɗakin kwana
Da matukar wahala a jefa matsalolin gida daga kai: Muna tunanin game da mafita, koda a cikin mafarki. Yarda da, yana da wuya a mai da hankali ga mutum na wanda yake jiran amsa daga gare ku lokacin da ranar da aka biya ranar biyan bashin.
Yi ƙoƙarin koyon canzawa a cikin daidai lokacin: bar duk matsalolin da ke bayan ƙofar gidan. Kamar yadda mularlett O'hara ya ce: "Zan yi tunanin shi gobe."
Mutuminku ya shirya don karɓar ku a cikin kowane "hotuna"
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Ba ku da Moodies
Yawancin dalilai suna shafar sakin kayan halitta na halitta: tun jinta da ƙarewa tare da magani. Amma mata sun gwammace suna zargin kansu jikinsu, suna tunanin cewa bai yi daidai da shi ba kuma koyaushe. A wannan yanayin, zaku buƙaci shawarwari na likitan mata, wanda zai gudanar da duk gwaje-gwajen da ake buƙata kuma ya sanya ingantaccen ganewar asali musamman a cikin yanayin ku.
A halin yanzu, ba ku kawar da sanadin bushewa da yawa ba, sami lubricant a cikin kantin magani domin kada ku keta ma'anar rayuwar ta yau da kullun.