Daya daga cikin abubuwan da ba su da kyau a cikin rayuwar mace - "lokacin da kuka riga kuka shugabanci jaririn ku?" Kuma ba koyaushe ana tambayar wannan tambaya a cikin sautin abokantaka ba, idan mutum bai sami wata amsa daga cikinku ba, akwai shawarwari daga rukuni "kuma tafi can, kuma tafi can, kuma ku tafi can, kuma ku tafi can, kuma ku tafi can, kuma ku tafi can, kuma an taimaka wa komai cikin irin wannan ruhu." Zamu bincika abin da za mu yi a irin wannan mara dadi, amma yanayin rayuwa sosai.
Ba shi yiwuwa tilasta tilasta mutum ya yi shuru kuma ba zai sake tambayar ku irin waɗannan tambayoyin ba, in ba haka ba har yanzu zaku ci gaba da magance irin waɗannan tambayoyin, har yanzu kuna yin shuru.
Kiyaye kanka a hannunka
Mummunan mafi munin da za a yi bayan tambaya irin wannan - don rushewa ko fara lalacewa, motsawa don zagi. Kai ce cewa yanzu ba ka shirya domin tattauna wannan tambaya, kamar yadda shi ne m, shi sa an matsananci mataki na rashin jin daɗi ba, amma idan wani mutum ne da tsada to your jama'a, dole ne ya tace cikin jigogi da ya so ya tattauna tare da ku. A kowane hali, a shirya don kowane hakkin daga cikin masu kutsawa kuma kada ku ɗauki laifi.
Kasance a shirye don maimaita
Abin takaici, da bautar da wani dorewa da babban iyali sun ci gaba a cikin al'ummarmu, cewa ba za a iya kawar da batun sake. Akwai 'yan abubuwan da kuka riga kuka nemi guji wannan batun - ba kowa bane a shirye kowa ya yarda da cewa wani zai iya rayuwa gaba daya rayuwa gaba daya, ba kamar nasa ba. A shirye daga lokaci zuwa lokaci don amsa tambayar da kuma sake. Kuna iya shirya tsarin.
Kasance a shirye don maimaita
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Take kanka
Tambayoyin da basu dace ba ya taɓa mu kawai lokacin da muke kanmu ba za su iya ɗaukar nasu ba. Hankalinmu da yawa sau da yawa ya dogara da ra'ayin rayuwarmu, tare da wannan kuna buƙatar yin aiki tula da kuma hana ƙaunatattunku su yi tasiri ga rashin amincinka. Idan ba zai yiwu a yarda da kaina kamar yadda yake ba, ɗauki lokaci don ziyartar wani kwararre, ba shi yiwuwa barin matsalar kamar wani abu ba gaskiya bane tare da kai, amma a cikin irin wannan halin ba gaskiya bane tare da kai, amma a cikin irin wannan halin Abu ne mai sauqi ka shiga cikin dangantakar dogaro.
Amma yawancin mutane suna iya fahimtar cewa wasu batutuwa suna jagorantar ku zuwa ga mummunan halin, wanda ke nufin mafi kusanci ba zai nuna muku ba tare da yanayin da ba dole ba, ba sa jira ga yanayin da ba dole ba.