Tabbas, haɓakar kai koyaushe yana taimakawa wajen cimma sakamakon da kuke yawan yin ƙoƙari, kuma ko da wane yanki kuke ci gaba da wuya. Koyaya, tseren don samun nasara wani lokacin na iya samun mummunan tasiri ga psyche - saboda wasu mutane suyi amfani da shi duka saboda ya fi so, amma ba ya da wani fa'ida ga aiki kuma ba ya shafar ku Ci gaba na mutum - kawai ba a yarda da shi da ma'ana ba ga lokaci. Wani mutum a zahiri ya hana kansa don son wani abu. Mun yanke shawarar gano dalilin da yasa muke kokarin ci gaba, amma ya fi kyau kada mu zama.
Kowane mutum yayi magana game da shi
Muna zaune a cikin duniyar har abada ta har abada, musamman ma wannan hanyar ta saba da mutane suna zaune a manyan biranen. Kullum muna tunatar da mu sosai har ma da karin awa da muke ciyarwa a gado, "alhali kuwa kuna bacci, wasu sun zama mafi nasara" - Wasu sun sami nasara sosai "- Wataƙila kun sami wannan magana fiye da sau ɗaya. Dakatar da tunani, sha'awar cin nasara ita ce muradin ku ko kuma ba sa son samun rashin yarda daga abokai da abokan aiki?
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Muna son zama mafi kyau duka
Kuma akwai haɗarin rasa ganin wancan facet, wanda ke musayar matsalar lafiya daga mai raɗaɗi na zama mafi kyau. A cewar masana ilimin mutane kiyasta, kusan rabin abokan cinikinsu suna aiki a cikin manyan kamfanoni, amma za a sami rikice-rikicen da ba a sansu ba, amma kawai masu horarwa sun nace kan m, wanda ke haifar da rudanin tunanin mutum wanda yake aiki da shi, amma bai sami wani sakamako ba, sai dai mummunan sakamako akan psyche.
Muna buƙatar sanin abin da muke so
Rayuwa a cikin jama'a, yana da wuya a yi watsi da burinsa. Kowannenmu masani ne ko a'a, a kan matakin tunani mai santsi yana neman samun yardar mutanen da suke iko a gare shi a wasu yankuna. Kuma kamar yadda muka sani, kudin kuɗi na iya son kowa. Idan baku daina yin kokarin samun yardar dindindin ba, bayan wasu shekaru na irin wannan yanayin, zaku fada cikin shugaban mai haƙuri a cikin ofishin masana kimiyyar dan adam.
Muna ƙoƙarin zama mai nasara kuma ba sa son jira
Sau da yawa, ra'ayoyin namu game da kansu ba su da ƙarfi da gaskiya, kuma wannan na iya haifar da mummunar rarrabewa. Lokacin da bamu sami amsawar da muke tsammanin yin komai ba, sha'awar yin wani abu mai tsawo, wannan matsalar ce sau da yawa ya zama babba, lokacin da mutum yakan nemi nasara a cikin shirinsa, Amma sakamakon rayuwa ta kwashe. Mutumin ya tsaya ya daina aiki, kamar dai bai kasance kusa da nasara ba. Bai kamata ku jira mutane da za su yaba wa kokarin da kuka yi ba - nuna ƙarin haƙuri kuma zaku ga sakamakon.