Rayuwa ba tare da sha'awa ga mafi kyawun abu ba ne mai ban sha'awa kuma galibi ba ta da ma'ana, saboda idan ba ku nemi komai ga wani abu ba, ba ku ci gaba kamar ƙwararre ko mutum ba. Koyaya, maza da yawa ana ɗaukarsu sau da yawa, wanda ba gaskiya bane.
Mun yanke shawarar gano menene mutane masu kwazo, kuma ko dai mutane ne masu amfani da amfani.
Karka wuce kan kawuna
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Wanene wannan mutumin da ake yi?
Yawancin lokaci, irin waɗannan mutane sun yi imani cewa sun cancanci girmamawa fiye da yadda suke da su, duk da haka, koyaushe suna yanke shawara game da wanene, a ra'ayinsu, ya cancanci abokanta da yardarsu.
Kamar yadda kuka fahimta, yawancin lokuta ana bayyana a cikin mummunan haske, duk da haka komai ba mai sauki bane.
Yadda ake rarrabewa tsakanin burin burin
Akwai nau'ikan buri da yawa, waɗanda aka sanyaya, ba a san su ba, abin da ya dace da isasshen.
A bayyane yake daga sunan da ƙananan buri ne masu tabbatar da rashin tabbas a cikin kansu. Suna fuskantar yadda laifin laifi kawai don tunanin nasara, kuma, a matsayin mai mulkin, ba kwa neman samun manyan kwararru ko kuma a shirin tsaro. Abubuwan suna ba da gudummawa ga ci gaban irin wannan rikicewar kansu, da yawa, farawa tare da ƙimar kai a cikin ƙuruciya, da ƙare tare da halaye halaye.
Cikakken cikakken kimanta karfin ku
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Abubuwan da suka wuce burin buri ne muhimmi a cikin cikakkun abokan adawar mutanen da muka bayyana a sama. Mutumin yana ƙoƙarin "tsalle sama da kai," ba tare da la'akari da bayanan nasa ba. Me yasa? Da alama mutum ne kawai shi kaɗai ne zai iya jure kowane aiki mai rikitarwa, kuma a ƙarshen ya kasance tare da komai. Duk da wannan karfin gwiwa, a wannan yanayin akwai matsala tare da girman kai.
Isasshen burin buri ne cikakken zaɓi, kodayake ba kowa bane. Halittar da mutum yayi la'akari da iyawar sa kuma baya ɗaukar ɗakunan ayyuka. Irin waɗannan mutane suna cimma tsaunuka cikin abin da ya cancanci rayukansu.
Matsakaicin har yanzu yana da kyau ko mara kyau?
Muhimmin abu shine cimma daidaito lokacin da kake da karfin gwiwa a cikin iyawar ka, kuma a lokaci guda kar a tsoma baki tare da wasu. A takaice dai, isassan buri suna da kyau koyaushe, yayin da rashin sanin kai ko girman kai ba zai taba jagorantar ka ga nasara ba, koda kuwa kana kokarin burge mutum wanda ba su bane.
Karka ɗauki fiye da yadda zaku iya aiwatarwa
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Ka tuna cewa bai kamata ka "bi ta kan shugabannin ba" don cimma burinka, kawai zaku cutar da kanku, kuma kusan ba zai yiwu a sami nasarar samun nasara kadai ba.