Babu wani abu mafi ban mamaki na na ɗan lokaci - wannan magana wargi ce, manya da yawa suna faɗi ba a banza ba. Soyayya ce ta farko wacce ta ƙare da sauri, ta kasance a ƙwaƙwalwarmu don rayuwa. Yanzu yanzu kun tuna da dangantaka ta farko lokacin da komai yake cikin sabon abu: ɗauki wani saurayi da hannu, ya sumbaci ko yanke shawara kan jima'i. Da kyau, idan wannan kwarewar ta kawo muku kyakkyawan farin ciki da kyawawan abubuwan tunawa.
Kaunar juna
Yawancin matasa da 'yan mata suna neman wasan kwaikwayo, kodayake ba su san kansu da kansu ba, kuma suna son fada cikin ƙauna kuma suna fama da ƙaunar da ba a tabbatar ba. Yi magana da ɗan saurayi shekaru game da abin da yake da mahimmanci a gare shi cikin dangantaka. Tabbas zai yi ta jin kunya, amma idan kun kusa ku faɗi komai game da gabatarwa. Ka faxa wa kansa bayyana cewa bai kamata ya wuce ta kansa ba saboda wani abokina ko aboki - mai ƙauna yana ɗaukar abokin tarayya kamar yadda yake.
Loaunar juna tana ba da fuka-fuki
Aminci sama da duka
Kuna iya samun kamuwa da cuta daga sumbata mai sauƙi. Fahimtar wannan, yaron ya zama mai alhakin kusanci da hankali kuma yana kusa da zaɓin abokin, kuma baya sumbata tare da kulob na farko na gaba. Abin da za a yi magana game da dangantaka mai kusanci - jima'i marasa amfani da cuta a cikin samarwa yana da haɗari musamman. Matasa ba su da isasshen gogewa da yiwuwar ɗaukar nauyin kayan abu dangane da batun rashin lafiyar da ke cikin yarinyar. Ka bayyana yadda yake da mahimmanci don amfani da kwaroron roba - ya fi kyau idan wannan abun ya zama tilas daga dangantakar farko ta yaron. Idan budurwa ta yi sa'a tare da wani masaniyar mutum, za ta guji wahala da mutane suka yi wahayi, ba don jin daɗin ƙwayoyin cuta ba.
Amincewa da kai
A wani matashi, yara suna fushi musamman: bai isa ba ga abokin zama mai wayo wanda zai faɗi magana game da yaron, yayin da yake farawa da hadaddun. Loveaunar farko zata iya tayar da ƙiyayya da kanku, faduwa ga zagi yayin jayayya ko kalmomi kamar "a ina kuke buƙata?" Wannan a cikin matasa suna wasa da ci gaba - ana maye gurbin rashin ma'ana da jaruntaka. Idan ka ga cewa abokin aikin yaron ya katse shi, a hankali ba da shawara ya je wurin ilimin masana ilimin psystotherapist. Yara sun fahimci irin wannan zaman, suna tunanin yana da muhimmanci a kula da lafiyar kwakwalwa.
Abokin tarayya ya kara girman kai, kuma ba don rashin sanin cikakken daraja ba
Af, kowane matsala a farkon matakin ya fi sauƙi a warware tare da masanin ilimin halin dan Adam kuma kada ya ba da kuskuren rayuwa a nan gaba. A farkon yaron koya daga bincike na son kai, da sauki zai jimre da matsalolin da kuma fuskantar motsin rai mara kyau.