"Ina kwana! Tare da saurayi, ranar tunawa ta farko da dangantakar tana kusa, kuma ina so in shirya m a gado a matsayin kyauta. Faɗa mini, don Allah, wani abu na asali. Mariya, shekara 26.
Dear Maria! Yawancin matan da suke na dogon lokaci dangane da dangantaka da waɗanda suke so su kiyaye yadda za a yi mamakin yadda ake yin rayuwa iri ɗaya. Koyaya, ba mutane da yawa suna da ikon da za su auri a kanku, a hannunku. Mata suna jin tsoron cewa, suna ba da wani abu wanda ba daidaitaccen ba, suna tsoratar da matansu ko haifar da jin kishi (idan ya zo ga ɗan wasa). A cikin wannan tambayar, yana da matukar muhimmanci a iya magance bidi'a da kyau.
Daga cikin hanyoyin mafi sauki shine abin mamakin da wani mutum yake mamakin da wani mutum - yayi amfani da abin wasan yara. Don haka mutumin bai ga "mai yin gasa ba a cikin sabon mataimakin", za ku doke lokacinsu daidai. Misali, zaɓi ƙungiyar masu jinya, zaɓar maigidan gida ko ɗalibi mai wasa. Haɗu da shi a cikin wannan hoton, yana nuna sabon na'etet lokacin da ya dawo gida daga aiki. Wata morearin da mafi ban sha'awa ga wani mutum na iya zama abin wasan yara wanda ya ƙunshi ɓangarorin biyu - kai tsaye daga kayan haɗin da kuma kwamitin kulawa. Aika da ikon nesa da mutuminka, ka bar sashi na biyu. Don haka, zaku ƙyale ƙaunarku don sarrafa yanayin, wanda tabbas zai yanke girman girman kai.
Idan mutum ya tabbata a kan amfani da kowane kayan haɗi a cikin rayuwa mai ma'ana, shirya "tafiya" zuwa wata ƙasa mai ban sha'awa, alal misali, Thailand. Don yin wannan, ƙirƙirar yanayi mai kyau - odar gida na abincin Thai ko ziyartar gidan abincin da za ku iya jira wani nutsuwa da aka zaɓa, kuma a hankali a sanya abincin dare a hankali a cikin al'adun gabas mai gamsarwa - Massage na Thai.
Sau ɗaya kai kadai tare da ƙaunataccen, ɗauki mai mahimmancin mai kuma ci gaba zuwa tausa, ba shakka, don sake saita sutura a gaba kuma ku raunana da ƙaunarka. Ana kiran dabarun cizon kai na Thai da "sumbata na jiki" don jikinsa mai laushi da jiki, kwatangwalo, benecks, pubis, touch wanda ya ba mutum Jin daɗi na gaske. Sauke su tare da Aromamaslas ko mai shafa kuma suna zamewa su ta jikin mutum.
Musamman cakulan, cikar tausa yana kallon gaban madubi lokacin da wani mutum ba zai ji kawai taɓewa ba, har ma don kallon wasan kwaikwayo daga gefen, fantasy fantasy.
Don ƙirƙirar saiti mai ƙauna, zaku iya canja wurin aikin zuwa wanka. A lokaci guda, kar a manta game da tsaro - zai fi kyau a samar a gaba don samun madaidaicin yankin tallafi ko suna da ingantaccen makirci na goyon baya.
Ekaterina Lyubimova, jagoran kocin Rasha