An daɗe an san cewa maza da mata halitmai ne daga taurari daban-daban. Suna yin tunani daban-daban da fahimtar daidai. Mata sun fi wani tunani da hankali. Su dabara ce. Maza dabarun. Kuma menene wasu mutane suka bambanta da mata?
1. Dangane da bincike na perennial, masu ilimin halayyar mutane sun kai ga ƙarshe cewa, ba kawai suna wakiltar kyakkyawan jima'i ba, amma kuma ya nuna rashin iya fahimta game da fahimtar kansu. Hakanan basu da digging a cikin kansu, bincike game da nasu ji da tunani. Basu sha'awa cikin ra'ayin wasu mutane, kada ka tambaye su game da abin da suke ji, a lokaci guda suna son tattaunawa game da zabuka a cikin Amurka, don bayyana Ra'ayi dalilin da yasa Biden ya yi tafiya a kusa da Trump da sauran batutuwa masu muhimmanci. Saboda haka, idan kanaso ka sami yare na gama gari tare da mutuminka, bai kamata ka jira kokarin binciken kai ba, yana da kyau isar da sautin makamancinka a matsayin mai nutsuwa da shi. Ka tuna cewa wani wakilin tsararren rabin ɗan adam a shirye yake don sauraron muryar tunani da mahangar muhawara.
2. Yawancin maza da alama ba za a iya faɗi ba, don haka a asirce a asirce suna tsoron wakilan kyawawan bene - maƙuwan da canji na yanayi, saboda su da yawa canzawa da yawa. A lokaci guda, maza suna da matukar muhimmanci cewa yanayin tunaninsu yana da kyau da kwanciyar hankali - wato saba. Tunda ba su da bambanci ga nazarin kai da kuma amincewa da kai, da kuma damuwa a rayuwa sau da yawa faruwa, sun sami hanyar fita daga barasa ko wasannin kwamfuta. Dukansu suna taimaka musu su dawowa zuwa tsayayyen halin ilimin halin mutum. Sabili da haka, idan kuna son samun zaman lafiya da kwanciyar hankali a cikin gidanku, yi ƙoƙarin haɗa zuwa wannan iyakar ƙoƙari, saboda adana ƙwayoyin halitta, wanda kawai mace ce kawai a kafada.
3. Maza sun guji alhakin wasu. Sun isa sosai alhakin kansu. Wannan sau da yawa saboda rashin yarda da rashin yarda don yin dangantakar kirki, da sauransu suna da ƙauna, kuma ya ji tsoron kowace wahala, kuma ya ji tsoron kowace wahala Domin kare kanka da matarsa - kar a manta da shi.
4. A cikin kowane irin maza, an gano wasu motifs. Ba sa iya zuwa kawai kamar haka, "a kan motsin rai" ko don wasu dalilai na yau da kullun. Domin yin hakan, kuma ba haka ba wani mutum yana buƙatar motsi. Idan mace ta fahimci dalilin cewa, zai iya fitar da mutum, wannan yana nufin cewa ya fi sauki a gare ta domin tabbatar da tattaunawa da fahimta. Saboda haka, da kuma yin fushi, da yin fushi da rashin yarda da rabin ka, ka kasa kunne gare shi, watakila zaku iya lura da sautin sauti.
5. An yi imanin cewa maza ba su da kyan gani fiye da mata, kodayake, a zahiri, yakan dogara da shagon halartar halayyar kuma irin halayyar halaye. Akwai maza-introverts, kuma akwai karin kwari. Koyaya, ana iya faɗi tare da ƙarfin gwiwa cewa ƙungiyoyi masu tseɓaɓɓun daga wakilan ƙaƙƙarfan rabin ɗan adam suna kusan mata. Saboda haka, a yayin aiki, bai kamata a raba sirrinmu tare da waɗanda ko wasu ba, idan a cikin ku, ba shakka, babu sha'awar zama babban adadi na ofis.