Kwanan wata, musamman na farko, na iya zama babban gwaji, har ma da ƙwararren ƙwararrun, abin da za a yi magana game da matasa waɗanda ke fara hanyar ƙaunarsu. Mafi sau da yawa, yara suna fuskantar matsaloli a cikin laifin iyaye waɗanda ke cikin tushen shigarwar ba daidai ba, don hakan haifar da matsalolin ilimin halin dan Adam. Iyaye suna ƙoƙarin kare matashin mai ɗorewa daga kurakurai, amma yana juya a akasin haka - yaron yana fuskantar rashin fahimta daga ɓangaren rabin na biyu, rikice-rikice suna yin hankali, a sakamakon haka, sun fashe. Kuma ya kamata a fahimci iyayen da ba shi yiwuwa a guji ƙauna ƙaunar matan saurayi, wanda ke da muhimmanci a yi magana da yarinyar, saboda Rashin rauni ya fi saurin kamuwa da gazawar, musamman a kan wani gaban mutum. Me ya aikata wani mahaifa mai damuwa, wanda saurayi zai zauna a cikin cafe tare da abokin karatuna? Bari mu gano.
Kwanan wata mai mahimmanci
Musamman mahimmancin irin waɗannan tarurrukan ga matasa, manya tare da tsawo na saurayi, a hankali ɗaukar sutura ko jeans, na iya zama kamar ban dariya. Amma wannan ba ya nufin cewa dole ne ku yi izgili kuma ku bayyana halinku idan ya kasance mara kyau. Ga yaro, wannan masaniyar na iya yanke hukunci ga dangantakar inganta tushen biyun. Wannan ba mai rauni bane, amma cikakken bangare ne na rayuwar saurayi wanda dole ne girmama mama tare da uba.
Kwanan wata - muhimmin mataki na girma
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Faɗa wa 'yarku game da gazawar
Kamar yadda muka riga muka yi fiye da sau daya, don saurayi, yana da mahimmanci don yardar da yanayinsa, saboda haka matsin lamba daga wani kwanan wata na iya haifar da haɓakar wanda aka azabtar cewa nufin abokin tarayya shine mafi mahimmanci. Irin wannan halin na iya haifar da manyan matsaloli a nan gaba, don haka iyaye ne wanda ya kamata ya zama mutumin da zai bayyana cewa ƙi dangantakar al'ada ce, idan ba ku buƙatar zuwa yanayin rabin biyu, idan abokin tarayya bai dace da shi ba.
A kan mahimmancin jima'i
A'a, hakika, ba kwa buƙatar haihuwar matashi wanda nake buƙatar yarda da kowane sabon abokin tarayya a farkon ranar, idan ya nace. Koyaya, don jinkirta tattaunawar game da abin da kuma don haka babu tabbas, ba shi da daraja. Faɗa mana game da mahimmancin yin jima'i da kuma irin hanyoyin kariya ta kasance, ban da, kunsa wani saurayi a cikin wannan zai iya yin amfani da shi idan har ba za ku taɓa shawo kan shi ba. Don haka zaku rage damuwa kuma zai iya hana matsaloli da yawa, idan wani saurayi zai tashi.