Da alama dai a lokacin, mutane na mutane suna canzawa - A cikin 2019, daga Janairu zuwa Afrilu, an dakatar da shekaru 53.6 da ƙasa da bara. Me zai iya yin tasiri a cikin ƙididdigar - abokan tarayya sun sami hankali da haƙuri? A zahiri, babu wanda ya san cikakken tsarin aure mai karfi, wanda zai ba ku hatimi ɗaya a cikin fasfon don rayuwa. Koyaya, akwai shawara da yawa waɗanda suke farin cikin raba masara na rayuwar iyali - game da su a cikin kayanmu.
Soyayya ba ta wuce
Kada ku saurari waɗanda suka yi magana game da samun abokin tarayya. Idan mutum yayi maka ban sha'awa a gare ku, son sha'awa da sha'awar murƙushe yanayin sa bazai wuce bayan shekarun aure. Ya ce Tom Hanks a cikin 2018, ya lura da bikin aure na lu'u-lu'u tare da matarsa Rita Wilson - 30 da aure. Kawai yi kama da Tom yayi magana game da ita: "Wani lokacin da safe na kalli wannan yarinyar, ni ban da lokacin da za a iya murmurewa daga barci - gashi mai dumici ... abu ne mai yiwuwa a jima'i!" Har yanzu matar ba ta rasa damar da ta gode wa mijinta saboda hankalinta. A cikin wata hira da mutane, Rita ta ce Tom ba tare da bukatarta ba ta tausa kuma tana farin cikin yin magana da maraice.
Hatimi ba mahimmanci bane
Wani Star Ma'aurata, Kurt Russell da Goodi houn, suna zaune tare ba tare da wani hatimi ba a cikin fasfo. Golde ya ce dalilin dangantakar dangantaka ba ta yin aure, amma, sama da duka, karfinsu da sha'awar warware matsaloli tare. Idan da biyu baya son yin aiki akan dangantaka, saboda rikice-rikice marasa tsari, ƙungiyar za ta ragu da sauri. Ba shi yiwuwa a yi daidai da juna, amma kuna buƙatar samun damar jimre wa ƙungiyar abokin tarayya kuma ku sami sassauci.
Ikon ɗaukar komai a hannunku
Yadda ake Hone Laice ga kayan abinci da ba'a so, ya fi kyau saya woswasher? Kada ku juya mai tashi cikin giwa da damuwa game da matsalar da ba a warware matsalar ba. Juya matsalar a cikin ɗawainiyar kuma zaɓi mafita don maganin mafita, koda kuwa ba ya zuwa gida, amma tambayoyin kansu. Don haka shekaru 41 da suka wuce, masu scultor don wasan kwaikwayo sun hadu da shahararrun actress Maryl Strep. Yarinyar nan sai ta sami mafi munin lokacin - saboda cutar sankarar mahaifa, mutumin da yake ƙaunata ya mutu. Don ya kasance kusa da Maryl, ya kewaye shi da hankalinsa kuma ya nuna cewa za'a iya ƙi shi. Haɗin da aka yiwa watanni shida kawai a ranar Dating.
Kasance kusa
"Na gaya wa matata: Idan ka rabu da ni, zan bar maka maigidan Douglas ya fada sau daya a cikin hirar. Yanzu shahararrun shekaru 102, kuma matarsa Ann Ba'anarz ya juya shekara 100. Daga shekaru 65 da suka yi aure! Auki majikawa daga wannan mazaje kuma sami abin sha'awa na gama gari - suna iya zama wasanni, tafiya, sadaka. An gwada motsin rai wanda aka zalunta da wutar ƙauna da so.
Bari dai dama ta biyu
Ba shi yiwuwa a kirga sau nawa Sheron ya tafi mahaukaci daga sakamakon mijinta ozzy osborne. A shekarar 2016, bayan shekaru 34, har yanzu ya shigar da wata kisan aure, ya nuna cewa yana nuna barazanar mijinta. Gaskiya ba ta zarce na wata shida ba, kamar yadda suka sake rantsuwa da rantsuwa a cikin wurin yin rajista kuma sake rayuwa. Idan kuna jin karfin aiki duk matsalolin iyali, yana maimaitawar ganin ku game da matsalolin rigima kuma ku ga amsawar tsohon abokin tarayya - Dare! Wasu lokuta mutane suna kuskure, suna zartar da mafi yawan dangi, amma sun fahimci kuskurensu kuma suna son canzawa.