"Kyauta don hutu daban-daban wani abu ne mai wahala, wanda shine yada haifar da jayayya da rashin jituwa da bibbiyu. Wani bai so kyautar ba, wanda bai yanke sha'awar ɗayan ba, da kyau, wasu ba sa son abubuwan mamaki. A zahiri, wannan kawai game da ni ne. Gaskiya ban son abin mamaki. Ina son komai ya zo da komai, yi tunanin cewa komai daidai yake da buƙata. Kuma idan, ya tsare, wani abu da zai yi kuskure, zan takaici, zan yi kuka, lalata yanayi na da sauran mutane.
Mu a cikin biyun suna da irin wannan yanayin don sabuwar shekara. Mijin ya gabatar da ni mai amfani da shahararren alama. Kuma ina so wani kyautar: Ina so a bald cat. A zahiri, busasshen gashi ya fi amfani, amma ina so ta - kuma wancan ne! Kuma nan da nan an lalace da ni, da miji na. Na tabbata cewa waɗannan yanayin suna faruwa a cikin nau'i-nau'i. Don kauce wa su, wani mutum yana buƙatar magana ta kai tsaye game da abin da kuke so. Ta yaya zan yi? A ce ina son daya ko wani ƙanshi na turare. Na fara nuna mijina saboda ya kalli wannan kamshi, gaya masa cewa kadan daga cikin budurwata sun sayi, zan ce "wataƙila zan sayi kaina." Kuna iya magana game da wannan abu duk sati. Babban abu shine cewa wani abu ba wani abu bane a wannan lokacin, kamar yadda zai iya kawai baya jin ka. Irin waɗannan dabarun suna da tasiri sosai.
Koyaya, da alama a gare ni cewa har yanzu yana da kyau ba don neman wasu hanyoyi masu wahala ba, amma hanya ce da kai tsaye da kai tsaye. Maza suna ƙaunar lokacin da suka ce kai tsaye, alamu wani lokacin ba su fahimta. Kawai zo ka ce: "Dear, Ina bukatan haikuka." Amma akwai, tabbas, da irin waɗannan mazajen da suke magana kai tsaye, kar a fahimta. Bayan haka zaku iya neman kyaututtuka tare, kuma zai sauƙaƙa rayuwar ku. "
Hakanan kan batun:
Karuwa na mata: zabi kyauta ga mafi kyawun aboki
Bouquet bace ce: abin da zai ba yarinyar da ba ta son furanni masu rai
Dear, zabi kaina! 4 ra'ayoyin icing wanda ba zai karya mutum
Taɓo