Ngeshwa, ezweni lethu, izingane zake zaletha indlela engenakuxhumana lapho ukuxhumana ne-tackle kwakuncane. Ezikhathini zaseSoviet, kwanconywa izingane ukuba zondle iwashi, zingasondeli kubo lapho zikhala. Kepha nge-Tactile, imfudumalo yomzimba kamama, umuzwa wephunga likamama ufika ezokuphepha. Ngenxa yalokho, iningi lezingane ezisukela ebuntwaneni lenze umuzwa wengozi yalomhlaba. Indlela ye-Manual yezemfundo yayisetshenziselwa ukuyiqoqa - ngephuzu lesihlanu lingatholwa nganoma yini. Ngakho-ke, zonke izizukulwane zezingane 'ezaphukile' zakhula. Futhi uma amashifu enzeka ngokubumbana ubuhlakani abangcono, bese maqondana nokukhulisa izingane, umucu usesezingeni eliphansi. Kwabonakala sengathi kuyingxenye yengqondo. Kuningi kakhulu, izindlela zemfundo ezinjalo zithathwa njengenketho yendlela ejwayelekile. "Futhi yini, esikushayayo - futhi akukho lutho, sakhula ..." Basho, bazithethelela yena noma abanye.
UMarianna Abovitova
Kwenzekani enganeni?
Noma yikuphi ukuhlaselwa ohlangothini lwabantu abaseduze kunciphisa kakhulu ukuqiniseka kubo, okusho ukuthi wonke umuntu omunye umuntu. Umphumela wokushaya ngempama nokuthobeka uba ukwehla kokuzihlola nokulahlekelwa ukuzihlonipha, kanye namakhono okudala, isifiso sokuba ngumholi futhi sifinyelele okuthile. Kuvame ukuba nezimo zokuphelelwa yithemba. Ingane ingakhula indoda ngaphandle kwemibono yakhe. Izingane ezinjalo zivame ukuwela ezinkampanini ezimbi.
Ngisho nokushaya ngempama elula, i-poddle ukwephulwa okuphelele kwemingcele yobuntu bomuntu. Ezinganeni ezishaya ngisho "ngezinjongo zokufundisa," ngeke zikwazi ukwakha ikhono lokuvikela imingcele yazo ebudaleni.
Ngenxa yokuziphatha okunolaka kwabazali, ingane iqala ukuhlanganyela ngokungazi wabelane ngomhlaba wonke "ezihlaseli" kanye "nezisulu", okuthinta umuntu mdala. Isibonelo, umhlatshelo intombazane njengoba umngane wesifazane azokhetha umsulwa ekubuyiseni isimo esinonya ngobuntwana bakhe. Futhi umfana umfana angaqala ukuhlupha umndeni.
Ungahlala kanjani kwiphrojekthi yezandla?
Uma ushaya ingane yakho, unezinkinga zokuhleleka kwengqondo. Udinga ukunquma ngochwepheshe. Awuzilawuli wena nemizwa yakho, ukukhulisa isandla sakho enganeni. Ngokuqiniseka ngamaphesenti ayikhulu, singasho ukuthi bona bashaya ebuntwaneni. Ngisho nokuyazi konke okwethusayo okwenzekayo, esimweni sentukuthelo kanye nokucasula ubuchopho bakho ukukutshela ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma esimweni - ukushaya ingane yakho. Ngasikhathi sinye, ulaka aluhlosiwe, alugculisekile kuye.
Ikusasa labazali bayakhuthazwa ukuba babhekane nezifundo zokwelashwa ezivela kuzazi zezengqondo ezinhle ukuze baziqede ngokuphelele lezo zimo, baqonde izinkinga zabo futhi bafunde ukuthi bangabhekana nazo kanjani. Futhi ngasikhathi sinye ukufunda imizwa nobuhlakani lapho ukhulisa izingane. Bheka izilwane njengoba zikhotha izingane zazo ziye eminyakeni ethile, ungazishayi futhi ungakhubeki! Ukwakheka kobuntu obuvumelanayo kuyasizwa ukuqashwa, ngokomoya nothando.