Owesifazane ngemuva kwesondo wayehlala ebizwa futhi, cishe, azohlala enza imizwa ephikisana nayo kubashayeli bamadoda. Omunye uthandaka lapho intombazane enhle, ephuma ngekhono esimweni esinzima endleleni, kanti amanye amadoda azama ukugwema izingxabano nowesifazane ngokusobala osanda kuthola amalungelo asanda kuthola amalungelo. Namuhla siqoqe imibono ethandwa kakhulu yabantu kule ndaba, futhi ngokushesha ukuhlanganyela nawe.
Owesifazane angayesabisa
Amadoda avunyelwe kakhulu ukuthi owesifazana ngemuva kwesondo ashaqisa, uma kungenjalo ukusho okuningi. Kuze kube manje, kunombono kwabesifazane - abashayeli abayingozi kwabesifazane. U-Alexander, umshayeli onolwazi ositshele ngokwesaba kwakhe, okuvela noma nini lapho ebona imoto emnandi enentombazane enhle ngemuva kwesondo: "Esimweni esinjalo, ngaso sonke isikhathi anginandaba nokuthile okuzoba khona . Mhlawumbe intombazane iqhutshwa ngokuphelele, kepha ngihlala ngigcina indlebe empumalanga, ikakhulukazi kuma-hlanganisiwe ayinkimbinkimbi. "
Amadoda amaningi awamelene nokuthi owesifazane wazo uzoshayela imoto
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Abesifazane abaningi emigwaqweni, okungcono
Kunombono ophambene nombono: Amadoda amaningi ayavuma ukuthi abesifazane banembe kakhudlwana, abakwazi ukushiwo ngamadoda. Kunzima ukungavumelani lapha, ngoba abesifazane, njengoba ongoti bamemezela, umuzwa wokuzivikela uthuthukiswa kakhulu. UStanislav - Umthandi Wezimoto, owavuma ukuhlanganyela umbono wakhe ngesitayela sokushayela sowesifazane: "Ngithanda kakhulu lapho owesifazane eshayela kahle, akazami ukunciphisa futhi angahambi. Lokhu kudala inhlonipho. Kepha nabesilisa, kuvame ukudingekile ukungqubuzana endleleni, futhi kaningi. Nikeza abesifazane abaningi emigwaqweni yethu! "
Ayikanqunywa
Isimo esinzima nabasanda kufika ngemuva kwesondo, esingakakwazi ukuqhathanisa izitayela zokushayela ubulili bobabili. Ngakho-ke, uVitaly, owayenezinyanga ezintathu ezedlule, waveza okulungile, wakhuluma ngalesi sihloko ngale ndlela elandelayo: "Ngeqiniso, angazi ukuthi kungani kufanele ngandlelahwebe abesifazane benani labashayeli. Mina, okungenani, kazange ngithole abashayeli ababi lapho bebhekene nabesifazane. Yebo, noma angikaze ngihlangane nabo okwamanje. Ngingasho ukuthi imoto yomuntu siqu entombazaneni ilungele kakhulu, ngokwesibonelo, angidingi ukudiliza ngiyiqhube kwenye indawo, angafinyelela kuSam ngokuphepha. Ngakho-ke, yebo, ngicabanga, owesifazana ngemuva kwesondo, kunalokho, umzuzu omuhle endleleni. "