Muva nje, abezindaba bavame ukuvela imiyalezo ekhombisa izinkanyezi zebhizinisi ongayikhokheli i-alimony ezinganeni zazo ezingekho emthethweni. Ehlazweni enjalo, uVadim Kazachachenko, u-Alexander Serov, u-Alexander Malinin nabanye abaningi baqashelwa. Azinamali ngempela, asikho isifiso? Kungani kuphakama izimo ezinjalo?
Ake sibheke kabanzi ngale nkinga. Eqinisweni, abalandeli abaningi baphupha uYise wengane yabo ukuba abe ngumculi othandekayo. Futhi kuvame ukunika okufiselekayo okuvumelekile. Futhi uma ubona ingane ngayinye enjalo, khona-ke imali kungenzeka ingabi ngokwanele ukukhokhwa kwayo yonke i-alimony.
Vele, ebusheni, abaculi abaningi, ukuvakasha ezweni lonke, banokuxhumana okuningi, kufaka phakathi imvelo eseduze. Futhi kusuka ekuxhumeni okunjalo, njengoba wazi, izingane zingazalwa. Futhi umthetho uhlala eceleni kukamama. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukufuna isudi yenkantolo, ukwenza ukuhlolwa kofuzo nokumisa ubunzi. Mhlawumbe ubaba ongase ubengazinaki izinselelo enkantolo noma wenqabe ukwenza ukuhlolwa, ukuzothethelela lokhu ngezizathu ezithile. Kepha inkantolo kunoma yikuphi ukunquma.
UVictoria Danilchenko
Kodwa-ke, le ndlela ayinikezi bonke omama ababelethe izinkanyezi. Kunezibonelo eziningi lapho intombazane evela ekujuleni kokujula kweRussia imemezela ukuthi ingane yakhe yindodana noma indodakazi yomculi odumile. Kumenyelwa kwimibukiso yenkulumo ehlukahlukene, ama-akhawunti ayo ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi athola ababhalisile abaningi, kuvela ubukhosi obuningi bezigidi.
Futhi iqiniso lobuzali ngaleso sikhathi lalingabonakali nakancane. Futhi ngenkanyezi kungaba yi-PR kanye nokushaywa ngedumela. Ezweni lethu, abantu abaphonsa ingane yendabuko abafuni ukukhokha i-alimony. Ngakho-ke kuyavela: Amantombazane abheka isibonelo esithelelekayo, njengoba ungahlelela impilo yakho, ungasebenzi futhi ungasebenzisi ukucindezela, nezinkanyezi, vele, ungafuni ukubona izingane ngokuya ngokuchofoza okokuqala.
Ngeshwa, amacala anjalo avame phakathi kwezakhamizi ezijwayelekile. Abesifazane bakhulisa izingane zabo iminyaka eminingi bebodwa. Futhi sebefunde ngempumelelo yezezimali yobaba ongaba khona, iya enkantolo. Okokuqala, yithuba lokuthola i-alimony, kanti okwesibili, uma ubaba wengane engumlingisi odumile, umculi, khona-ke ungathola ukuqashelwa kabanzi.
Ngifuna ukuguqukela kwabesifazane namantombazane amancane. Ngaphambi kokuvuma ukuxhumana nabantu abangavikelekile, cabanga ngekusasa lakho. Futhi uma kwenzeka le ndaba enjalo kuwe, yiba nekhono - iya enkantolo futhi ufakazele into yakho efanele. Ungenzi Pr. Okokuqala, kungalimaza ingane yakho.