Jabula futhi lapho owesifazane enamathela kuwe ngemibuzo eyisiphukuphuku, enjengokuthi "muhle noma ngabe" uyamthanda. " Khumbula, uthola isiqinisekiso sokuthi umuhle, futhi umfazi uyakuthanda lapho ulale naye. Ngoba ke uyanikela, futhi wena - uyathatha. Lapho umtshela ukuthi muhle, futhi uyamthanda, uyathatha, futhi uyapha. Ngakho-ke, bancoma imilenze, izinwele, izingubo kanye nokunye konke okuzokubona. Uma ufuna ukuphazamisa ebhange, wasongela okuthile okungalindelekile, yize amashiya, nakanjani owesifazane uzobona ubuqiniso. Noma kungenjalo.
Jabula lapho owesifazane ekutshela ukuthi wakopela kanjani esitolo noma ukuthi waxabana kanjani nomngane wakhe. Noma etshela isikhathi eside, ngokungakhathali nangemininingwane engadingekile. Kusho ukuthi abuthakathaka, angavikeleki futhi akukucele ukuba uxhase. Khumbula futhi, ukutshela konke lokhu ukuzwa ukuthi "amalungelo", hhayi nakancane ukuthola ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi ulungile noma cha?
Uma owesifazane ekubeka endaweni efile ngokuziphatha kwakhe: wakhubeka ngalutho, waxosha ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngakhala nanoma ngubani nalokhu - thokozani! Ngoba isizathu sokuziphatha kwakhe ngokuphelele eBhayibhelini ehlekisayo - ufuna nje ukusayina. Yanga, ukwanga, ukukhuthaza ekhanda lakho, kunikelwe ukuthatha ingubo entsha futhi usebenzise le junk yesigaba esiphakeme kakhulu.
Jabula!
Ukwesaba! Wesabe lapho owesifazane engathengi izinto ezingadingekile, akakutsheli ukuthi umuntu ulungile kanjani ngelungelo lakhe, awunakukhanga, akukukhangi, akubekezeleli lapho uxhumana kahle ikhanda lakhe (noma imbongolokazi Umzamo wokushaywa unhlangothi awudingi ukuncoma ukubukeka kwawo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umfazi onjalo wanelisa "i-ego" yayo yabesifazane ngaphandle kwakho futhi ngokujwayelekile ngaphandle kosizo. Ngakho-ke, qiniseka ukuthi uzibuza: "Kungani ngiyidinga?" Futhi kungaba kuhle, wayazi impendulo kuye.