U-Olga Marandi - Umhleli Wemishado. "Amandla okubona injabulo yezisulu futhi ukuxhumana nabantu abajabule kunginikeza umfutho onamandla kunawo wonke esenzweni, la mandla amahle angenakuqhathaniswa kungenye nenye injongo yempilo. Futhi ngikulungele ukwenza konke ukuze injabulo izungeze ngokwengeziwe! " - Ithembisa u-Olga.
"Ngomqondo wanamuhla, ukubandakanyeka kungcono umkhosi womshado, isiko. Kodwa-ke, ezikhathini zasendulo, wadlala indima enkulu empilweni yomakoti nomkhwenyana. Isibonelo, ngemuva kokuzibandakanya, abantu abasha babengasakwazi ukulahla umshado. Manje isiphakamiso sesandla nenhliziyo yisikhashana esingalindelekile nesangoma empilweni yayo yonke intombazane.
Ukubandakanyeka (Ukuhlangana, Ukuzibandakanya, Ukuzibandakanya, Ukucindezelwa, I-Pre-Weddice) Isivumelwano sokuqala esiphelweni somshado, esasigcinile, hhayi okubalulekile kwasekhaya, kodwa futhi okubalulekile. Kusho njalo wikipedia. Ngemvelaphi yalo, lo mcebo wasuka kulezo zikhathi lapho ekhokha intengo ngentombazane ngayinye eyekile ephelezelwa ngokumkhipha ngokuqondile kumkhwenyana noma enhloko yomndeni wakhe. Ngalesi sikhathi, umshado wahlukana emasikweni amaningi. Enye yamapharamu awukuzibandakanya kokuzibandakanya noma ukuzibandakanya.
Vele, awekho amandla asemthethweni wesicelo sesandla nenhliziyo njengamanje asithwali. Ungaletha izibonelo eziningi lapho lo mbhangqwana uhlanganyele, kodwa angizange ngiwudlale umshado, futhi kamuva ngazizwa ngabo bonke. Ngakho-ke kwenzeka, ngokwesibonelo, ngemikhonto yaseBritney: umculi kanye nomlingani wakhe ohlulekile uJason Pyravik banqamula lapho kubandakanyeka khona futhi ngasikhathi sinye bahlala bangabangane abahle.
ERussia, ukuzibandakanya kuvame ukuhlelekile. Esikhundleni salokho, lesi yisikhashana sothando: Omunye wabashade naye ojwayelekile wenza isiphakamiso, wabeka indandatho yokuzibandakanya esikhwameni esinama-burger avela ku-mcdake. Othile uza kuleli phuzu ngokungathi sína futhi adonsela abangane ku-Flashmob, othile uqoqa izihlobo eziseduze, futhi othile uya kuMaldives.
Futhi ngaphambi kokuba khona nokuba khona kwezihlobo ku-hoop bekuphoqelekile - abashadikazi besikhathi esizayo bashintshana izindandatho, futhi abazali babusisezelelwa abasebasha. Futhi lapha - ungamangali - indaba yenkontileka yomshado endala kakhulu kunalokho esikucabangile nawe! Lapho ubandakanyeka, abazali babeka izimo ngokuphetha komshado, okungukuthi, inkontileka yomshado wangempela yaqedwa, imvamisa yaqedwa, yayigqilazwa nguRicy of "ongokomfanekiso phakathi kobaba bomshado. Ngakho-ke isiko lokubuza izandla zendodakazi yakhe enhloko yomndeni - uyise.
I-Rite of the Engagement yabaluleke kakhulu ukuthi emva kwakhe ukuyeka umshado wawusuvele ubengenakwenzeka. Kepha uma kwenzeka into enjalo, uhlangothi olunecala lubuyisele ukulahleka, ukuhlinzeka ngemali ebizwa ngokuthi "yesikhathi sokuhlaziya". Ngaphezu kwalokho, isonto laseRussia labona ukungahambisani nokuzibandakanya.
Kodwa-ke, zonke izinhlawulo nezinhlawulo zaqedwa ngo-1702 nguPeter I, obekukholelwa ukuthi ukuzibophezela okunjalo kuncishwa inkululeko yobusha. "Imali ye-dimonor" selokhu yaphenduka i-dowry. Izihlobo zoMlokini ziqoqe umakoti wesikhathi esizayo eGreawenid DOWRD kusukela ebuntwaneni - eqala ngelineni lokulala, eliphela ngegolide.
ERussia, ukubandakanyeka kungenzeka kube yinani elihlelekile, kepha nokho isiphakamiso sesandla nenhliziyo siyisinyathelo sokuqala sothando nomndeni.
Abesilisa, yenza lolu suku lungalibaleki!
Uma isiko lokuzibandakanya linqume ngokuqinile ukubamba, udinga ukunquma ukuthi kuzokwenzekani. Izinketho eziningana. Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi ngabe lo mcimbi osondelene naye uzoba - kuphela ozoba ndawonye - noma izihlobo nabangane bazomenywa.
Uma ukhethe inketho ethi "Itet-A-TET", kufanele ingalindelekile. Intombazane emvelweni iyalithanda lezimanga, futhi isiphakamiso sezandla nezinhliziyo kuye kuzoba yisipho esihle kakhulu empilweni! Kulokhu, ungamema indawo yokudlela yakho oyithandayo. Noma ukuholele ekuhambeni ngepaki ayithandayo, lapho ukudlala khona indawo engalindelekile, ngokwesibonelo, ukuthola indandatho ngamahlamvu noma eqhweni. Uma imali ivunyelwe, kufanelekile ukuthatha ithikithi emazweni afudumele futhi olwandle olwandle lumnikeze ibhokisi alithandayo ngendandatho. Akunandaba ukuthi bazwakala kanjani, kepha akunakwenzeka ukuthi le ntombazane ayigculiseki ngokuzibandakanya okunjalo.
Futhi ungakwazi ukupenda lolu suku olubaluleke kakhulu ngokubiza ukuthola abangane abasizayo. Kulokhu, amathuba akhawulelwe emcabangweni wakho. Muva nje, kwaba yimfashini ukuhlela i-flashmob ngaphansi kwamafasitela entombazanyana yentombazane ethandekayo, ememeza ngesifiso sakhe sokushada, wabe esethola le vidiyo, wabe esefaka le vidiyo kwi-Intanethi ukuze ufunde umhlaba wonke ngentokozo yakho.
Idili nabazali lisho ukubikezela komcimbi. Okungukuthi, owakwakho oshade naye uzokwazi ukuthi kungani izivakashi ziqoqwa. Izinyembezi zesithunzi sogogo nomkhulu, iziboshwa ezijabulisayo zezihlobo nokuhalalisela okuningi kufakwa "iphakheji lezinsizakalo".
Noma ngabe yini umshado isisekelo esiyisinyathelo sokuqala esibi sibheke empilweni yomndeni. Akudingekile wesabe, kudingeka wenziwe engalibaleki! "
Kulezi zinto ezilandelayo: "Umlingo wendandatho yokuzibandakanya iyimfihlo noma imfihlakalo ye-SACRAL?"
U-Olga Marandi