Ukuya ocansini ngasikhathi sinye kwaba yisimo esijwayelekile kule minyaka emihlanu edlule: Manje akekho umuntu ongeke amangaze le ndaba mayelana nomlingani, ohlangane naye izolo, kodwa namhlanje ekuseni ngangivele ngahlukana ngempumelelo. Noma kunjalo, abanye basathusa ukunquma ngokuhlolwa okufanayo nendoda engaziwa. Sizokusiza ukuthi uthathe isinqumo esifanele, futhi sinikeze izeluleko ezithile kulabo asevele behlela ukukhathazeka kwesikhashana esifushane esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
AKUKHO UKUZIPHATHA KAKHULU
Vele, ubulili nomuntu omusha aqinisekise ukucindezela, ikakhulukazi uma uvumele umhlangano owodwa kuphela, futhi nokho akudingi ukwenza ngokusobala amasu abuhlungu noma abukeke nomuntu olibona okokuqala. Asikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi umlingani omusha ungumthandi onekhono ongaqinisekisa ukuphepha kokuhlolwa kwezocansi.
Sebenzisa izinhlelo zokusebenza
Awubi njalo yini imigoqo, kepha namanje awuphikisana nemihlangano emifushane esondele? Akudingekile ukuwachitha ngokwakho futhi ulinde "i-Prince" kwikhawuntari ye-Bar, sebenzisa izinhlelo ezikhethekile zokuthi inani elibonakalayo livele nje. Into esemqoka ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi lokho okulindelwe ngumlingani omusha.
Shayela itekisi ngokwakho
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Funa imihlangano ngaphandle kwengxabano
Owesifazane "obamba" owesilisa emgqomeni ubonakala ngokushesha ukuthi ezimweni eziningi ababambisene nabo abangaba khona. Relax, ekugcineni, noma ungamtholi umlingani kusihlwa, uzochitha kusihlwa, ikakhulukazi uma kungedwa, kodwa nangomngane. I- "Pretatory" ibukeka iheha kuphela okuqukethwe okungadingekile kuwe futhi nakanjani ngeke kuhehe umuntu ohloniphekile.
Hlela konke "ogwini"
Ake sithi ujwayelane nendoda emnandi, iya kufonele itekisi nohambo kuye, futhi kuvela ukuthi le ndoda ayifiki eyedwa, futhi amacebo akhe afaka ama-three. Kungazelelwe. Owesifazane omfishane kulesi simo kunzima ukusho ukuthi "cha", kepha akafuni omunye umuntu wesifazane noma indoda embhedeni. Khombisa ubulukhuni, faka izimo zakho futhi ungavumelani nokuthi ngeke ujabulele impela.
Uzoya kubani?
Ngethu "isidleke" uzozizwa uqiniseka, futhi unikeze impendulo uma kwenzeka into elula. Kodwa-ke, lungiselelwa ukuthi umlingani ophikelelayo angabanjwa nawe, ozoba nsundu ekhaya. Uma ungadingi i-subsequent disassemes, iya kuyo, kodwa ekuseni ngokwayo ubiza itekisi ukuze ungakhanyise ikheli lakho.
Ungakhohlwa ngokuvikelwa
Mhlawumbe iphuzu eliyinhloko. Ubona umuntu okokuqala owaziyo ukuthi "ukumangala" okuthi "okuzokushiya kanjani ngemuva kobusuku bothando. Noma usebenzisa izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo ngomlomo, qiniseka ukuthi uthenga amakhondomu, njengoba amagciwane nokutheleleka akusona isikhumbuzo esingcono sobusuku obumnandi.