"Ndodana, kepha akayena umbhangqwana!" - Ngezinyembezi emehlweni akhe, umama olandelayo ovela kuthelevishini MAMKOM ngobudlelwano bemindeni ubheke ngengane yabo eneminyaka engama-30 ubudala. Futhi yize empilweni yamantombazane ajwayelekile eMamyenkiy, amantombazane azama ukudlula ohlangothini, nokho nomkhwekazi womama kungekudala kufanele uhlangane. Noma umuntu ekusekela emzabalazweni welungelo lokuthola ukuqiniseka kukanina, yena uqobo angazenza sengathi uyinqaba engenakuphikwa. Kodwa-ke, ngokumelene namaSoviet ethu, akekho uMoki ongeke ame - kuzofanela akuthande njengendodakazi yendabuko.
Uzwela lubusa ukuthula
Akukho okubi okuvela emvelweni yabantu - wonke umuntu uba khona ngenxa yempilo eminingi yePeripetias. Akudingeki wahlulele imikhuba nokuziphatha komqondo kumuntu kuwe, waze wakutshela yena uqobo. Lo mkhuba wokugcina imikhiqizo noma ukucisha yonke indawo, ukukhanya kungakhuluma nakancane nge-Senile dementia, kodwa mayelana nowesifazane onzima wobuntwana kanye nokuntuleka kwemali emndenini wakhe. Khuluma nendoda yomphefumlo uma isesimweni esihle: Uma lona wesifazane ekwazile ukukhulisa indoda efanelekayo, njengomyeni wakho, ngokuqinisekile unokuthile angawabelana nawe. Kwesinye isikhathi abantu bagcina amathambo anjalo emagebethe, okuthi, okuwavula, umbono walaba bantu ushintsha ama-degree angama-180.
Thola ukwanga okujwayelekile
Abantu bazizwa bekhululekile kakhudlwana lapho bekhiwa baba ngamaqembu, futhi ukukhuthaza okuvame kakhulu ukuhlanganisa - izintshisakalo ezifanayo. Naphezu kwentsha, futhi ungathanda ukumoqa ngesiphambano noma ukhule izithombo noma umkhwekazi wakho, ngokuhlukile, uzolwela imigoqo yentombi kanye nokuhamba emhlabeni wonke. Ngeke sazi ukuthi umama womyeni wakho nomyeni wakho, kodwa bakuqinisekisile yini ukuthi ngisho nabantu abanjalo abangaphandle kunabo bonke kunenqwaba evamile. Yabelana ngesipiliyoni sakho komunye nomunye, unikele ngosizo - konke lokhu kuyakuhlanganisa.
Ungahluleli umuntu uze wazi izindaba zakhe
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Sitshele ngemizwa yakho
Imvamisa, abantu abaqondi ukuthi basebenza ngani ekwenzeni amathiphu abo angezona aqhekeziwe kanye nokuziphatha. Abantu abaseminyakeni yobudala bomhlanye yemingcele yemingcele yomuntu siqu, njengoba nje bekhuliswa emindenini, lapho kwabusa khona iminyakazo evamile kuze kube yilapho amantombazane eshada futhi edlulela ezandleni zawo umyeni wakhe futhi edlulela ekwenziweni komyeni wakhe. Akumangazi ukuthi lapho kubona umameza wakho ungahleleki nokuhleleka kobudlelwano, umama kaMusha uphakamisa ukungakhethi phakathi kokuphila kwakhe waphila futhi iqiniso lokuthi umbhangqwana wakho uzoba nalo. Woza itiye lakhe futhi ngamehlo esweni likhuluma ngalokho okukuhlukumeza: ungaphakamisi izwi lakho, ungakusoli izwi lakho futhi ungazibeki njengesibonelo. Sitshele ukuthi uyakwazisa isifiso sakhe sokusiza, kepha ufuna ukwakha impilo yakho ngokwakho futhi ufunde emaphutheni akho. Yabelana ngokuthi uyayithanda indodana yakhe futhi ufuna ezimbili kuwe okungcono kakhulu, kepha amathiphu avela ohlangothini avusa izingxabano. Sicabanga ukuthi uzokuqonda futhi uzozama ukuvinjwa.
Isinyathelo ngiyisinyathelo wena
Ekusunguleni noma ibuphi ubuhlobo, ukubamba iqhaza kubalulekile kubalulekile. Yenza isinyathelo sokuqala ukubhekana nokubheka ukuthi ukubuyiselwa kuzolandela ohlangothini lomkhwenyana. Uma ungasebenzi okokuqala, zama amanye amabili, kepha okwesithathu ukhulula zonke izinhlamba futhi unciphise ukuxhumana komuntu siqu. Awuphoqelekile ukuthi uzokwakha kabusha komunye umuntu ukuze amjabulise. Phila ngenjabulo nomndeni wami futhi uthathe yonke imizamo yokubhubhisa indawo yakho yeMbewu. Ngikholwe, lo muntu wake wabona ubuwula bezenzo zakhe, kodwa-ke, isimo sakho sengqondo ngeke sibuyiselwe. Into esemqoka ukubhekana ngokwanele futhi ungangehli ukumemeza nokuthuka.