Yini umfelandawonye nomuntu ojwayelekile? Uhlangana, qala ukuxhumana, bese uba ngumbhangqwana, uchithe isikhathi ngokuphelele, ushade bese usohlwini. Abesifazane abaningi, yize baphikisana nalokho okuphambene, cabanga ngokuthuthuka okunjalo kobudlelwano obuyisidina - lapho kungatholakali khona izingxabano zomphakathi ezingxabanweni nasezindaweni eziphansi zekotoni? Kepha ubudlelwano nabagibeli ababi yinkambu yangempela yokuqeqesha ikhono layo lokuphikisana ngokungafanele. Amathumba ashubile, ukungezwani kukhula phakathi kwakho, izinhlansi ezingokoqobo zikhipha ngaphandle kwamehlo - ubuhle? Hhayi! Sihumusha okuqukethwe kwe-Psychology Namuhla, lapho umkhaya wakwamanye amazwe uTalieTapist Foresterotherapist echaza ukuthi kungani amantombazane efika kubafana ababi futhi.
Abafana ababi - ubani
munye. Guy epholile . Umfana osalokhu ephazamisa umthetho, ekhombisa esidlangalaleni ukuthi akanendaba nezinkambiso zenhlalo. Sicasule ngokushesha, singahlambalaza futhi sisongele, sikhombise ulaka. Ukukhanya kwesimo esinjalo akunakulindeleka, kepha futhi kuyingxenye yesithombe sakhe.
2. Unesizungu esingaqondakali ngokungafanele . Lo ngumuntu ophula zonke izinkambiso zenhlalo futhi ahambe ngendlela yawo, noma ngabe uyazishiya ngemuva kosongo, izinhlungu zengqondo nemizwa emibi kulabo abaqhubeka bamnakekele. Njalo uthule futhi ucabange, unabangani abancane noma abanabo bonke.
3. Umncane waphakade . Kulesi sifo ungathola ukungaphenduki okulimazayo, okumnika i-charm yaseBoy, kepha futhi futhi kuphoqa ukuthi ihlale ithola izinkinga ngenxa yokwephulwa kwezitho zomthetho noma izingxabano nomphathi nomphathi kanye nenja yakhe.
ezine. Impumelelo ye-daffodil. Umuntu oqinisekisa wonke umuntu ngaphakathi kokuzwa ukuthi yena:
A. Alfa - owesilisa.
B. ngokucebile ngokucebile.
C: Isazi ezintweni zonke, ikakhulukazi kwezemidlalo nabesifazane.
Musa ukukhonza indoda enjalo
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Izizathu ezinhlanu zokuthi kungani abesifazane behlotshaniswa nabo
munye. Iphutha lobuwula . "Le ndoda yayibukekayo, iyathandeka futhi iyalilalela, kanye neklayenti lami, ngibona izimfanelo ezinhle futhi namanje engabazi ngohlangothi lwakhe olumnyama, lwaphenduka khona inoveli. Ngemuva kokutshalwa kwemali okungokomzwelo nokwakha umuntu omuhle kakhulu, bekunzima kuye ukuba akholelwe ukuthi izimfanelo ezimbi zaziyingxenye yesimo sakhe esiyinhloko, "kubhala isazi sezengqondo.
Abesifazane ngalesi sigaba bavame ukuhlala ebudlelwaneni, ngoba bakholelwa ukuthi umuntu uzolungisa futhi avuse izimfanelo ezimbi. Bakulungele ukuziguqula, bazivumelanise nomlingani. Ngaphandle kokuncenga okubi kuye, owesifazane uzokholwa ukuthi umlando wabo unesiphelo esijabulisayo ngesimo somshado, indlu enkulu kanye nenqwaba yezingane.
2. Umzamo wokuba yi-psychotherative . Abanye besifazane bayingqayizivele ku-Psychotype yoMsindisi: Bakulungele ukudonsa owesilisa kuyo yonke imiyalezo yakhe yezengqondo, okuqinisekisa ukuthi umdlalo ufanele ikhandlela. Lokhu kuvame ukuba ngenxa yesidingo esibukhali sokunakwa ngesendlalelo ngesifiso sokuthokozela ngokuphelele umuntu, ukwazi konke ubuthakathaka baso. "Abafazi babheka" bafana ababi "njengamadayimane ngendlela engalashwa, edinga nje ukuphonlisa okunamandla ukucibilikisa imiphetho engalingani. Lapho nje kutholakala, zonke izimfanelo ezinhle zomuntu zizoguqulwa, "kusho umeluleki.
3. Abanakho ukuzethemba . Laba besifazane bavame ukwazi ngokushiyeka komuntu, kepha banganaki, bekholelwa ukuthi kuzoba nzima ngabo ukuthola umlingani wakho kangcono. Bazibuza ukuthi ngabe abantu babathola ngempela ezintweni ezithokozisayo ngaphandle kwalezi zingqinamba. Ngemuva kwamanoveli athile noma amabili anabantu abanjalo, owesifazane uyaqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ukuthi kungaba yisiphukuphuku ukulwela amazinga aphezulu kumlingani athembisa ukuthi abe nobudlelwano naye. Ngokubona kwakhe, isifiso sokuphakama okuphezulu siyoholela ezinhlungwini eziqotho kakhulu.
ezine. Ukwesaba Ukusondelana . "Bakhetha ngonembeza amadoda okungenzeka ukuthi akha ubuhlobo obuvuthiwe, futhi abone umuzwa othile wokududuza nokuhambisana nezidingo zabo," amanothi akhethekile ebudlelwaneni nomuntu omubi. Inoveli enjalo iphephile kubo, ngoba abesifazane bazi kahle ukuthi ngeke bathole okungaphezu kokuguga. Ngakho-ke ungaphumula futhi ungacabangi ukuthi indoda izokuholela ngaphansi komqhele. Ngaphansi kwezimo ezinjalo kuphela, ezinye izintokazi zilungele ukuziphatha ngokwemvelo futhi zijabulele umzuzu.
Akufanelekile ukubalwa kuxhumano oluqinile
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ezinhlanu. Ama-neurotic . "Impilo ibonakala isongela ... futhi kwabanye, inikezwe izimo zabo, lo mbono ulungile. Banesifiso esinamandla sokuba nomuntu oqinile ngokwanele ukuhlangana ubuso nobuso nomhlaba, futhi ushayele ukushaywa okubusayo lapho kunesidingo. " Ikhono lokuzimela futhi izintshisekelo zakho akukubi, umlingani wentombazane enjalo uma kunezinkinga azocabanga ngenduduzo yawo, hhayi imizwa yakhe. Amadoda anjalo aphelele ama-egoers. Futhi bonke ngoba empeleni abazethembi: Maduze nje intombazane izobona ukuthi bazama ukumphatha.
Kungaba nzima ukuphunyula ebudlelwaneni obunjalo. Ukufihliwe kwakhe, kepha ukungaqiniseki okujulile kubangela ukuba kuzwela kowesifazane, ngisho nesihawu. Lokhu kudala isikhundla esinzima: shiya umuntu osengozini, uzizwa elahliwe. Kodwa-ke, owesifazana owanele ozithola ebudlelwaneni nomuntu onjalo uzokwenza konke okusemandleni ukuphuma kubo.