Ama-stereotypes okuqashelwa emphakathini waseRussia ayalondolozwa: Uma owesifazane enemali nomsebenzi, khona-ke kungokuqukethwe "kubaba" (noma ngabe ubaba kababa, umyeni noma isithandwa sami), noma engajabuli empilweni yakhe , "Isitoko esiluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka" noma "umfana esiketi." Ngeshwa, i-stereotype enjalo iqinile, futhi iyamelana ngoba kunezibonelo ezithile ezivela empilweni ezisetshenziswa njengengxabano ukuqinisekisa iqhaza le-stereotype.
Eqinisweni, ingcebo kanye nomsebenzi akusona isithiyo senjabulo yomuntu siqu. Tshela futhi wenze umsebenzi ophumelelayo intombazane encane ekhanyayo engena ngaphandle kokuxhaswa okuhle, nokwakha umndeni omuhle noma ukuthola ama-orgasms amahle kakhulu nomyeni noma othandekayo, awudingi ukwenqaba isimo senhlalo esiphakeme. Injabulo ihlukaniswa futhi iphelele kakhulu iba lapho kuhlanganisa impumelelo emsebenzini, inhlalakahle kahle ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo, ubulili kanye nokwenziwa kwezenzo njengomfazi kanye nomama (noma abafazi kuphela abakuthandayo).
Ukuthola ukulinganisela okuphelele kwempilo, kuyadingeka ukudlula uguquko lwangaphakathi, okungukuthi, ukushintsha, ukuba lukhulule kulawo mabhuleki nezingqinamba ezivinjelwe ukuba zijabule. Kodwa ukuguqulwa kwangaphakathi kungahambisana nezinye izinkomba nokukhipha kusuka endaweni ejwayelekile yokududuza. Lokhu akulula, kepha akudingekile ukushiya indawo yokududuza, ukushiya indlela ejwayelekile yokuphila, okungaba yisizathu esikhulu sobubi, akusizi ngalutho: Nikeza impilo yakho entsha okuqukethwe.
Noma yikuphi ukuguqulwa kwangempela kuyinkimbinkimbi, kufaka phakathi umsebenzi engqondweni, emzimbeni, ekuziphatheni. Ukuzithuthukisa ngohlobo ngasinye kulezi zindawo, siba ngcono futhi sikhange ngokwengeziwe hhayi kwabanye abantu, kubandakanya nabalingani abangahle, kodwa nabo. Kepha uthando lwalo luyisimo esiyinhloko nesiyisisekelo sokuphumelela kwenjabulo yomuntu siqu, ukwakhiwa kwempilo enhle nevumayo.
Ukunakwa okuhlukile kufanelekile ukukhokha ubulili besifazane. Yize lesi sihloko besiyi-taboo izolo, namuhla sikhuliswa ngokwengeziwe. Owesifazane uhlala ehlala enguwesifazane, noma ngabe unguMqondisi Jikelele wenkampani yawo noma umphathi ophezulu webhange elikhulu. Ucansi empilweni yowesifazane ludlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu futhi lucindezele i-libido yakhe ngokuzithandela ukuze bazenze bajabule egameni lezinto ezithile ezingenangqondo noma ama-stereotypes. Ngakho-ke, usizo ekuqwashisweni kobulili babo buba ngomunye wemisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu exazululwe kwinqubo yenguquko.
Ngeshwa, umakhi wesiphetho sakhe akanikezwa wonke umuntu, kepha lapha sithola isidingo sokusekela umbhede. Enhliziyweni yoqeqeshi ofanelekayo emkhakheni wokuguqulwa kwangaphakathi kwempilo ihlala ekhona indlela yomuntu ngamunye: Sonke singumqeqeshi ohlukile futhi omuhle. Mhlawumbe umqeqeshi ngumuntu impela umuntu ongambulela bonke ukwesaba kwakho kwangaphakathi, izakhiwo, izimfihlo, ngaphandle kokuthola ihlazo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukwenze ukuze ususe izithiyo enjabulweni yakho. Bambalwa abantu abangakukholwa, kepha baziguqula ngokuphelele, babeke uhlelo olusha lwenjabulo yakho ezinyangeni ezintathu nje. Akuyona inani elikhulu kakhulu lesikhashana le-Life Balance ende elindelwe, akulona iqiniso?
Abantu abaningi abaseduze kwezinsizakalo zokufundisa batholwa ngokuthi "ama-noodle ezindlebeni" kumantombazane asekhaya noma amantombazane amancane, aphupha umxhasi kamalume. Kepha akunjalo. Izinga lezinyanga ezintathu lezinyanga ezintathu lenzelwe ikakhulukazi abesifazane abazimele nabazethembayo, lapho inhloso eyinhloko ukuceba ngokufuna indoda ecebile, futhi bathole ukuvumelana phakathi komsebenzi nomndeni, ibhizinisi eliphumelelayo nothando lokuhlushwa , umsebenzi ehhovisi kanye nama-orgasms amaningi.