Kusukela ebuntwaneni bathi: "Kufanele (- ku)!" Futhi ubani, njengoba, okubaluleke kakhulu, kungani, asiqondi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Izimfuno eziqinile ikakhulukazi ziboniswa abafana, amadoda azayo akhula ngokufakwa kufanele kubazali, abangane kanye nowesifazane wakubo. Eqinisweni, lezi yizidingo nje zabantu abathile, konke lokhu akuhlangene nokukweletwayo.
Siqoqe izinto ezinhlanu umuntu akungafanele azikho ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo.
Kunoma yimuphi umbhangqwana, isikhwama semali sibalulekile
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Indoda ayibophekile ukukugcina
Cishe lesi isidingo esiyisisekelo kunazo zonke owesifazane asibeka phambili ngenyanga yokuqala yokuqomisana. Lesi simo sisachazwa uma kukhona umndeni onesinye noma esinganeni esiningana, kodwa kumayelana nendoda nowesifazane wakhe abangahle bangashadi. Sibonakala njalo umbhangqwana onjalo emgwaqweni, ezitolo lapho zilenga ngokoqobo emadodeni abo, zifuna ukuzithenga njengento, futhi uma uqaphela, indoda evame ukunikezela ngaphansi kwengcindezi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lona wesifazane uyathethelela ngokuziphatha kwakhe ngokwakha "ukugxila ekhaya", yize kungakuqondi nokuthi kuyini nokuthi ungayakuya kanjani.
Ngakho-ke owesilisa unelungelo eligcwele lokwenqaba owesifazane, ngoba kuphela abantu abadinga usizo lwakhe ngempela yizingane zakhe, bonke abanye, ikakhulukazi umfazi, bangazinakekela kahle.
Indoda ingaba ngabangane nanoma ngubani, ngisho nowesifazane
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Indoda akufanele ukuthi iphonse abangane
Kuyaqabukela kakhulu ukuhlangana nowesifazane ozoba nobudlelwano obuhle nabangane bakamuntu wakhe. Ngoba nje imikhakha yezintshisekelo nokubukwa kuhluke kakhulu. Yebo, futhi iningi labesifazane limane nje linomhawu ngendoda kwabanye abantu, ikakhulukazi kubangani abathi, kusho ngabesifazane, beba isikhathi abangasibambe ndawonye. Qondisisa lokho abangane, bobabili owesilisa nowesifazane - abantu abaseduze, kwesinye isikhathi basondela kakhulu kunezihlobo. Ukuzama ukuxabana indoda yakho nenkampani yakhe, uzokwenza ungajabuli, futhi uyakudinga?
Indoda kufanele kuphela izingane zayo
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Indoda akufanele isuke kubazali bayo
Indaba inganela phansi njengezwe: ukubhekana noMkhwenyana kanye noMakazazana. Vumela lona wesifazane angakufaneli futhi awukwazi ukuthola ulimi olujwayelekile, mawuqondwe yindlela yakhe yokuphila, kodwa awunalo ilungelo lokuphazamisa ubuhlobo bakhe nendodana yakho, awukukhathaleli. Yebo, ungafuna ukuthi le ndoda ihambele ohlangothini lwakho engxabanweni nabazali bayo, kepha konke okwenzeka phakathi kwakhe nomndeni, kuphela umsebenzi wakhe, akufanele ungene kuwo.
Indoda ayiphoqelekile ukuthi yabelane ngezintshisekelo zakho.
Vele, ukukhiqizwa kokubukwa kuletha ukuvalwa, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi umlingani wakho kufanele abe yi-Clone yakho. Ake sithi uthukuthele iziwula, futhi uzama ukuqinisa owesilisa kulowo mdlalo, udlulisele ukufanekisa iklabhu yakho oyithandayo. Ungakwenzi ngale ndlela. Uma ufuna "ukuqasha" isithandwa sakho, unikele ngobumnene ukuchitha kusihlwa phakathi kwabantu obajwayele izintshisekelo, ubukeka, futhi uzophenduka. Kepha angikaze ngiphoqelele yini ukuthi ungakhubeke ngu: "Kungani egwema ukukhuluma nami?"
Indoda ayiphoqelekile ukungena ezinkingeni zakho.
Ukusekelwa kuyadingeka kunoma iyiphi inhlonipho, uma kungenjalo lobu budlelwano bumane nje awunangqondo. Kodwa-ke, kunezinto eziningi owesifazane okwazi ukuzixazulula zona, futhi ongadingi ukunikela umuntu. Khumbula ukuthi ungumuntu okhulile ngokwakhe ozibophezele impilo yakhe futhi okwazi ukwenza izinqumo. Indoda ingakunikeza kuphela izeluleko noma ukuhlinzeka ngokusekelwa okugcwele.