Namuhla, abangane bethu kaningi, noma siyavuma ukuthi ukuthola usizo ozonikezwa yonke imiphefumulo, hhayi elula kangako. Abantu abaningi basebenza ezikhundleni ezanelisa izidingo zemvelo yezezimali kuphela, "abazinikelayo" ngasikhathi sinye futhi "ukubulala" ugqozi. Ikakhulu kaningi, izinkinga zokuzibona zitholwa ngabantu abasanda kuthweswa izikhungo zemfundo eziphakeme kanye nalezo ezisezingeni eliphakeme - iqiniso lalingafani nokuthi "wadonsela" i-dean nothisha. Okufanele ngikwenze? Ukuphelelwa yithemba nokubamba nganoma yikuphi ukunikezwa? Ungasheshi. Masibhekane nendlela yokufaka igxathu negxathu ukuxazulula enye yezinkinga ezicindezela kakhulu namuhla.
Kuthiwani uma…
Cabanga nje ukuthi awunankinga nokuzinikeza konke okudingayo futhi udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani esimweni esinjalo. Ake sithi uwine ilotto, une-akhawunti yasebhange ehlaba umxhwele, yini elandelayo? Ngabe uzoqala ukukhipha isimo? Uzokhathala ngokushesha kwalo msebenzi futhi kuzodingeka ukuthi anqume ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani, ukuze ukhulume, "ngomphefumulo". Ungacabangi ukuthi imali engenayo iletha kuphela izikhundla ezithile emikhakheni emincane. Uma unikezwa icala futhi ukholelwe empumelelweni, imali engenayo izophenduka ngokungahleliwe ukuze izinzile. Kodwa-ke, lungiselele iqiniso lokuthi umgwaqo oya empumelelweni ngeke ube mfushane.
Yini ekuthandayo kakhulu?
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Yini ngempela oyithandayo
Kungazelelwe, enye yezinkinga zendoda yanamuhla yaphenduka ukungabi bikho kwezinto ezizithandayo nezintshisekelo. Kakhulu ngale nkinga ibhekene nabantu abanesipiliyoni esithandekayo sesisebenzi, esithi "nyamalala" emsebenzini. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, bagqugquzela ukuthi kubalulekile ukukhulisa umuntu obalulekile - "isikhathi, ihora elimnandi." Lokhu kufakwa okubulala noma yiluphi ugqozi futhi siqala ukulahlekelwa ukholo ngamandla ethu. Khumbula ukuthi yini oyithandayo ebuntwaneni futhi wawuphilisa kahle? Futhi manje - yini ekwenza ube mnandi namuhla? Cabanga ukuthi yiziphi izindawo zokuphila ongazisebenzisa izintshisekelo zakho. Ngabe uyathanda ukudweba futhi ukwenze kahle? Zama ukusesha izikhundla ezivulekile lapho "ukubukwa" kudingeka kumathunzi nemibala. Uzobona ukuthi izinkampani eziningi ezinkulu zintula ongoti.
Yini ofuna ngayo
Lapho ufuna isikhundla samaphupho, qiniseka ukuthi wenza uhlu lwezinhloso zakho okungenani unyaka olandelayo. Lapho uya ngqo ohlwini lwezikhala zomsebenzi, kuzocacisa kuwe, noma ngabe kufanelekile ukuchitha isikhathi ukuze uthole inhlolokhono yesikhala, lapho uhlelo lungakuhleki kuwe ngokuphelele futhi luzothatha isikhathi sakho esiningi, ngenkathi uhlela Ukuze uqhubeke nokufunda ongeke ube nesikhathi sokubamba. Cabanga ngalezikhathi ukuze ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha ungaphinde ubhaliselwe ekusesheni kwesiza.
Yini okulindelwe wena
Ngaphezu kwehluzo ezimnandi, amaholo kanye neqembu elihle, kufanele ube nentshisekelo kumathemba akho. Yimaphi amakhono ongawathola kule ndawo ngokungeziwe? Yikuphi ukuphakama okungatholakala eminyakeni embalwa? Kukuziphi izinkomba ongazithuthukisa kule ndawo? NgeSonto izimpendulo zale mibuzo, zihlobana nazo zonke izinzuzo namaminithi, ngemuva kwalokho ungenza isinqumo.