Kubukeka sengathi isikhathi esinzima kakhulu sokukhulelwa komama osemusha kungukukhulelwa kanye nonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwendodana noma ndodakazi. Kodwa-ke, ngokoqobo, i-sobble kakhulu yisikhathi kusukela ngonyaka kuya kweminyaka emithathu nesigamu. Kungalesi sikhathi lapho omama nobaba baqala ukukala ukukhathala okukhulu lapho kudingeka ulwe khona kahle.
Yebo, ingane injabulo, kepha le njabulo enomsindo kwesinye isikhathi iyadinisa, okungokwemvelo ngokuphelele, ikakhulukazi uma kuMama osemusha kanye nemfundo yonke nezemfundo. Ngamandla kagesi anjalo, kunzima ukubhekana nakho, kepha uyakwazi.
Nikeza ingane yakho i-sideline
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Ukuheha ingane njengomsizi
Lapho nje umnyango uvala umnyango, umama omncane ucwiliswe enkambisweni yansuku zonke ehambisana nemisebenzi yasendlini. Ngabe ubheka intaba yelineni elingcolile futhi ububula kanzima? Kepha emva kwakho konke, unendoda encane ekwaziyo ukubhekana nemisebenzi yokuqala efana nokugcwalisa wena izinto emshinini wokuwasha noma ukusiza endizeni yokudla. Ngakho-ke ingane izohanjelwa, futhi ngasikhathi sinye uzoyigcwalisa.
Awusona ebugqilini
Imvamisa, ukuthanda ingane ibhekwe ngokuphelele ingqondo, ikakhulukazi uma ingane ingeyokuqala. Sonke sabona izimbumbane ezikhuphuka zizungeze ingane yazo yokudla, zenze konke ukuthi ingane ingacasuki. Okokuqala, ukuziphatha okunjalo, uphazamisa ingane ukuze ufunde ukukhuluma, ngoba ngegama elithi uqonda izicelo zakhe, owesibili, uma udlala noma yimuphi umuntu ozokhula, nengane ayisetshenziswanga ukwehluleka. Okufanele ukhulume ngokushiswa okungokomzwelo kukamama endaweni enjalo.
Mema ezinye izingane
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Ungazami ukusungula imidlalo emisha ngaso sonke isikhathi
Lokhu ngokomthetho kukhipha, futhi inganekwane ayinamkhawulo. Uma ingane idinga ukunakwa njalo kuye, zama ngokungafanele ukuyixhumanisa izindaba zakho zasekhaya, azobhekana nayo nakanjani.
Uma ingane ibhikisha futhi izama ukwenza ukuthi udlale lokho ofuna kuye, futhi nawe, uqonde ukuthi ukukhathala kumboziwe, mema izingane ezifanayo nezingane ezifanayo nezingane ukuvakashela phansi, nezingane zizokwazi Yiba buthule ezindabeni zabo.
Zinike isikhathi sakho
Uma unomuzwa wokuthi ukungezwani sekuzodlula emaphethelweni, ngitshele "Yima" bese uvumela isikhathi eholidini lakho. Tshela abathandekayo bakho ukuthi udinga isikhathi esithile ekubuyiselweni kwamandla angokomoya, cela umkhwekazi nomama amahora ambalwa ukuhlala nengane, bese uyolala noma uzinike umbhangqwana noma uzinikeze i-colposs embalwa egumbini lokugezela.
Ngempelasonto, ungathumela kalula izingane ukuba zihambe nobaba, futhi okungenani kanye ngenyanga, zinikele ngokuphelele kulo lonke usuku: vakashela umcimbi, vakashela umcimbi ekuzinikeleni noma nje Ngomuzi wakusihlwa uthule. Ukuphumula okunjalo kufanele kusize "sebenze" ikhanda futhi uzizwe kubhekwe amandla. Ungakhohlwa ngawe.
Thumela ingane ngokuhamba nobaba
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