Kuyiphutha ukukholelwa ukuthi umhlaba uhlukaniswe yaba mnyama nomhlophe, kanye nezimpawu zobuntu zokuthola okuhle nokubi. Uma ukwazi kwethu kukwazi imizwa, kusho ukuthi kuyadingeka ekuthile okuthile, vumela umphakathi futhi ungakukhuthazi ukubonakaliswa kwabanye babo. Sizame ukuthola izinzuzo emizweni engathandeki kakhulu, okuthi futhi ikutshele.
Ungazethembi uzizwe
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Intukuthelo
Hhayi umuzwa omnandi kakhulu, kepha nokho kudingekile. Uma ukholelwa ochwepheshe, umuzwa oqinile wobubi uvame ukukhonza njenge- "pendel", iningi lethu elidingekayo: ngifuna ukwenza konke ngokushesha. Kepha ukusabela nje kokuvuselelwa kwesikhuthazo kungenzeka, kunalokho, kuholele ekucindezelekeni, ekucindezelekeni naseNeurosis.
Umona
Umphakathi wanamuhla awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwalomuzwa: Siphila emhlabeni wokuncintisana, sifunwa kakhulu futhi singaweli ngaphandle kwaso, sifuna ukuthola konke futhi ngokushesha - "kanye ne-diamond stick ye-selfie" - njengoba kuza komunye we Amathrekhi weqembu le-Hollywood Vampires. Ezimweni ezinjalo, umuzwa womona ngamanani amancane uyadingeka ukuze uqhubekele phambili, ethola amakhono amasha nolwazi lokudlula izimbangi. Kepha ungadakwa: Uma ungavele ububula nje, ubheke imoto entsha yomakhelwane, kepha uphile lo muzwa, kuzokubhubhisa maduze.
Ukugxeka umoya
Futhi, njengoba sikhuluma ngempilo edolobheni lanamuhla, i-psyche yethu kunzima ukubhekana nokugeleza kwemininingwane kanye ne-avalanche yemizwa esiyithola nsuku zonke. Kulokhu, cynicism ukubavikela uhlelo lwethu lwezinzwa, "ukupholisa" kwemizwa nokusiza ukubhekana nokushaqeka nokushaqeka.
Umona ungakubhubhisa kusuka ngaphakathi
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Ukuziqhenya
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sijwayele kulokho kuqhosha akusiniki izibuko emehlweni omphakathi. Ngokuvamile abazali bathi: "Ungaqhudelani, uziphathe ngesizotha," futhi ukuthobeka lokho kunesizotha empilweni yabantu kungakhula kube ukuzibhubhisa esikukhohlwa ukusho. Umuntu uba nzima ukwazisa ngokwakhe nomsebenzi wakhe, ngenxa yalokho intuthuko yesitebhisi somsebenzi ikhona noma i-bracking, noma iyeka nhlobo, ngoba awukwazi ukuhlola ukubaluleka kwakho. Ngamunye wethu okungenani kanye empilweni yakhe kwakuwumhlangano nomuntu owabhala ngempumelelo yakhe ngenhlanhla, futhi ukwehluleka kwakuthatha kahle. Uma uzifunde, buyekeza isimo sakho sengqondo ngokwakho, futhi okungcono kakhulu - Xhumana nochwepheshe ukuxazulula inkinga ngayo.
zithande
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I-egoism
Futhi zonke izinkinga kusukela ebuntwaneni: "Iya kubafana", "nikeza ucezu olungcono kakhulu lwekhekhe, sazwa eminye imishwana efanayo namalungu omndeni. Futhi okwamanje, i-egoism enempilo iyindlela yokuzigcina ngokulondolozwa, okuvelele ezikhathini eziningi zokuphila, futhi ikakhulukazi umuntu. Vele, udinga ukunakekela abathandekayo, kepha futhi ukhohlwe wena.