Mhlawumbe, owesifazana ngemuva kwesondo asoze ayeke ukuba yi-heroine yezindaba zesilisa okuxoxwe ngazo embuthanweni wabangane. Eqinisweni, lona wesifazane uyakwazi ukubhekana cishe nanoma yisiphi isimo endleleni, noma ngabe amadoda abukhali azovuma kangakanani. Sinqume ukuqoqa izinkinga eziyisisekelo zangempela ezibhekene nabesifazane abasendleleni, hhayi ezindabeni ezingezinhle zabayeni babo, futhi zingitshele ukuthi yisiphi isizathu.
Hlehla
Enye yezinkinga ezinkulu, ikakhulukazi kwabaqalayo, nokho, amadoda adinga futhi kahle lesi sici sokufunda. Abesifazane ngokwabo bachaza izinkinga ngentambo yokuthi isikole sokushayela sivame ukufundiswa ukuguquka futhi sibheke emuva, ngenkathi isibuko sokubuka emuva sihlala singekho. Ukuzama ukubona nalapho, khona lapho, isikhathi sidlula, bonke abanye abashayeli baqala ukusayina, lona wesifazane uqala ukukhathazeka ngenxa yalokho kungalimaza umuntu ngokubhekisisa imizwa. Rarulula inkinga kalula - ungesabi ukuzama ukusuka kuhlelo owafundiswa ngalo, noma ngabe isibuko sokubuka emuva besingakachazwa, zama ukusebenzisa izindlela ezahlukahlukene ezimweni ezihlukile - bese uzama ukusebenzisa isibuko okwamanje.
Ukuzijwayeza okwengeziwe
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Ukugibela ebumnyameni
Uhambo olusedolobheni lobusuku luhlala lumelela izinkinga zabaqalayo, ikakhulukazi lapho sikhuluma ngamagceke asondelene noma umgwaqo ongaziwa - ngokuzumayo ngeke ubone okuthile noma ukudideka. Ngokwezibalo, abesifazane imicabango enjalo bavakashela kaningi, kepha akufanele bahleke. Ochwepheshe bachaza lokhu kwesaba ngokuntuleka kokuqonda kobukhulu bemoto yabo, kepha lapha ungakweluleka kaningi ukuzijwayeza futhi ufunde kuma-maneuu ampofu ezindaweni ezimpofu. Uzophumelela.
Ubunzima ngokupaka
Abesifazane abaningi bayavuma lokho ezikhaleni ezivulekile, lapho izindawo eziningi, zona, njengomthetho, aziveli, kodwa ezindaweni ezigcwele izindawo ezigcwele izindlu kanye nakwindawo emincane kunomuzwa wokuthi kungazelelwe ngaphambi kwalokho. Njengoba sishilo, amadoda kulula ukwazisa ubukhulu bemoto yabo, futhi nansi konke kumayelana nomehluko wokuxhunyaniswa kwe-neural, hhayi ukuthi umfazi unzima ukufundisa ukushayela kanye nokupaka okulungile. Futhi - imikhuba eminingi nokungabaza okungaphansi kuwe, futhi futhi ungalaleli indoda yakho, ongahle ahleke imizamo yakho yokuvulwa kwezimoto ezincanyana. Okwamanje akukaziwa ukuthi yiliphi kini elizowina leli khono kangcono, okubaluleke - umkhuba owengeziwe.