Kunzima ukuhambisa umuntu ngaphandle kobandlululo: ukwazi okuhlanzekile, ukugeleza kwemibono emisha - konke lokhu kubonakala kuyiphupho elingabonakali. Eqinisweni, ukufakwa "kompango", kusiphoqa ukuthi sikuhlanekezele umbono wabanye abantu kanye nemicimbi eyenzeka nathi. Zitholele wena nezintombi kulokhu okubonakalayo - Yabelana ngamazwana ngalokho oye wakubona.
"Nginomona uMasha, kodwa emhlophe ..."
Imiqondo ye- "White" kanye ne- "Black" Umona nge-Psychology abukho. Umuzwa womona ukusabela okujwayelekile ngokomzwelo, okuvela ezikhathini zasendulo ngesikhathi umzabalazo wokusinda. Ngokwemvelo uzifunela okuhle kakhulu - kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhohlwa ukumlwela. Bona imizwa njengoba zinjalo futhi zibazi - kuzoba lula ukuguqula umona ngentokozo eqotho kothandekayo.
Thola izindlela ezintsha
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"Kumele ngifune kuphela - futhi umhlaba wonke emilenzeni yami"
Ukufaka ngokwengxenye kubhekisele entweni edlule. Kuliqiniso, akuyena wonke umuntu ongazitholi ngamazwi azenzele izenzo - kaningi ukufeza izimo ezinkulu futhi athuthukise izimo zokuphila ziphela ngokurekhoda amagoli kudayari. Ungacabangi ukuthi iplanethi igxila kuwe yedwa, futhi isiphetho silindele ithuba lokufeza amaphupho ayigugu - konke kunzima kakhulu. Lwela ukwenza okuningi futhi ukhulume kancane, khona-ke zonke izinhloso zakho zonyaka zizoqala ukuncipha ohlwini ngokulandelana. Ukusekela umsebenzi nokoma kolwazi olusha kuyisihluthulelo sokwakhiwa kobuntu nokukhula kwalo ohlelweni olungokomoya nolubonakalayo.
"Cishe kufanelekile ukumnika ithuba ..."
Entombini eminingi uGordius, wakhumbula le ntsholo, ukuba acabange ukwesabisa. Ngubani okuphefumulele ukuthi 'ucansi oluhle' kuphela ngoba owesifazane wazalwa? Yiba umuntu omuhle kakhulu - ungadlali imizwa yabanye abantu futhi ungabheki izinzuzo kumlingani ongaba khona. Ungeluleki ukuxhumana kuphela ngoba wesaba ukuhlala wedwa. Uma ungathandi indoda, mtshele ngayo ngqo nangokuzithoba - akunangqondo ukudonsa ukumamatheka ngesikhathi somhlangano nomuntu, empeleni awunandaba naye. Mnike ithuba lokujabula futhi ujabule ngokwakho.
Indoda akufanele iqagele izinhloso zakho
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"Ngizothenga uJeans ngosayizi omncane - vele wehlise isisindo ngeholide"
Yima ukuze uziphoqe ukuthi wehlise isisindo: Awucelwa ukuthi uhambisane namazinga obuhle. Izingubo ezilula ezihleli kulesi sibalo ziyinkomba yesimo sengqondo somuntu esinempilo emzimbeni wakhe. Mthanda futhi uthuthukise okwakho, hhayi ngenxa yokuphawula okungaphendulwanga emadodeni azinikelayo noma ukungaqondi kwezintombi. Futhi akufanele unake usuku: amaholide noma hhayi amaholide akubalulekile. Uma umgomo wakho ukuphila impilo ende futhi ejabulisayo, ukondliwa okufanele, ezemidlalo nokuhlanzeka kwemicabango ngeke kube isivivinyo esendleleni eya kuyo. Kuza Ngaphambi kwalokhu ngokwengqondo, ukuqonda: Yebo, mina uqobo ngifuna ukunciphisa umzimba ngaphandle kokusikisela.
"UNkulunkulu Unikeze I-Bunny, Nikeza Futhi Utshani"
Lo mbingo wokugijimisa uvame ukuvela ukuthi azoqondaniswa nesimo sengqondo sezinsana ngokuzala izingane. Ungacabangi ukuthi uhlangana nomuntu omthandayo futhi ushada ngokwanele ukuhlala ndawonye futhi ujabule. Nobabili kufanele nizame ukuqongelela imali ekubukeni kwengane: ifulethi elibanzi, elilungele umshini womndeni, amandla okushayela umntwana emibuthanweni nasezigabeni, futhi nosuku okwesikhashana ukwenza i-nanny. Lapho unikeza okuningi ku- "Qala", Kuzoba lula ukufika ku- "Qeda" ngokwakho.