Ngelishwa, kwilizwe lethu, abantwana bebekhe bekhulisa indlela yonxibelelwano xa unxibelelwano lwe-tactile lwaluncinci. Kwixesha laseSoviet, abantwana banconywa ukuba bondle kwiwotshi, bangasondeli kubo xa besiya. Kodwa nge-tactile, ukufudumala kwebhunga lamama, imvakalelo yevumba likamama liza ukhuseleko. Ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwabantwana kwasebusaneni luye lwenza ukuba ibe yingozi yeli lizwe. Indlela yemfundo yayisetyenziselwa ukuyinyusa-kwinqaku lesihlanu inokufumaneka ngayo nantoni na. Ke, izizukulwana ezizonke "zabantwana abaphukileyo bakhula. Kwaye ukuba iitshizi zenzekile ngokunxulumene nobuchule bendawo engcono, emva koko ngokunxulumene nokukhuliswa kwabantwana, intambo ikwancinci. Kwabonakala ngathi yinxalenye yengqondo. Uninzi kakhulu, iindlela zemfundo zibonwa njengendlela eqhelekileyo. "Kwaye yintoni, siyethiwe - kwaye akukho nto, sakhulelwa ..." Bathetha, sizithethelela bona okanye abanye.
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Kwenzeka ntoni emntwaneni?
Nakuphi na ukuhlaselwa ecaleni kwabantu abasondeleyo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzithemba kwabo, oko kuthetha ukuba wonke umntu. Isiphumo sokubethwa kunye nokuhlazeka kuya kuncipha kokuzihlonela kunye nokuzihlonela ngokwazo, kunye nobuchule bokuyila, umnqweno wokuba yinkokeli kwaye ufezekise into. Kuhlala kukho iimeko zethemba. Umntwana unokukhulisa indoda ngaphandle kwembono yakhe. Abantwana abanjalo bahlala bewela kwiinkampani ezimbi.
Nditsho ne-slap elula, i-paring yindawo yokutyumlwa kwetyala lemida yobuntu bomntu. KuBantwana abathi "Ngeenjongo zemfundo," abayi kuba nako ukwenza amandla okukhusela imida yabo emdala.
Ngenxa yokuziphatha kwabazali, umntwana uqalisa ukungazi sabelana ngokungazi ilizwe "amaxhoba" kunye "nabavuki", nto leyo echaphazela abadala. Umzekelo, i-nye intombazana njengeqabane lakho iya kukhetha umsindo ukuba icoceke imeko yenkohlakalo kunye nobuntwana bakhe. Kwaye i-Ages Goard iyaqalisa ukuhlukumeza usapho.
Ungahlala njani kwiProjekthi yeNcwadi?
Ukuba ubethe umntwana wakho, uneengxaki zomyalelo wengqondo. Kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo ngengcali. Awuphambisi kunye neemvakalelo zakho, ziphakamise isandla sakho emntwaneni. Ngenye ikhulu leepesenti ukuzithemba, sinokuthi ngokwabo babumbe ebuntwaneni. Nditsho nokwazi into eyoyikisayo yento eyenzekayo, kwimo yomsindo kunye nokucaphukisa ingqondo yakho kuphela kukuxelela kuphela indlela yokuphuma kule meko - ukubetha umntwana wakho. Kwangelo xesha, ubundlongondlongo abujongile kuye, oko kwandoneliseka kuye.
Bayakhuthazwa abazali bakamva ukuba benze iikhosi zonyango ezivela kwiingcali ezilungileyo zengqondo ukuze zisuse kwakhona iimeko ezinjalo, ziqonde indlela yazo kwaye zifunde indlela yokuhlangabezana nazo. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye ukufunda imvakalelo kunye nenqanaba lokucaphuka xa ukhulisa abantwana. Jonga izilwanyana njengoko zikhaba abantwana babo kwiminyaka ethile, musa ukuzibetha kwaye ungakhubeki! Ukusekwa kobuntu obuhambelana nokuhambelana kuncedwa bubuchule, ukunyamezelana nothando.