Ubudlelwane yindawo esibuthathaka ngayo kwaye sisengozini. Njengoko upumple imisipha kwiholo, ke kufuneka umpompoze amandla akho okufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kwaye ukhethe indlela eyanelisa ngokulinganayo kwingxabano. Xa kubonakala ngathi imeko ayifunekiyo, inokuthemba i-Intuition-Khetha inani ukusuka kwi-1 kuye ku-7, kwaye siza kuthetha ngento ekufuneka uyenzile. Bhala emva kumagqabaza, ngaba icebiso lethu likuncede? Umzekelo, sonke saphuma.
Umzobo 1. Izithethe eziqhelekileyo. Xa ungenanto yokuthetha, kufuneka wenze izinto ezifanelekileyo. Iingcali zengqondo kunye noochwephesha be-sex ngelizwi elinye bathi iiklasi ezihlanganisiweyo, nkqu nezona zintle nezisidenge, zizisa amaqabane ukuzisa amaqabane kunye nokukhanya ukukhanya kwenkanuko phakathi kwabo. Thenga umdlalo wedesktop, khetha imuvi enomdla, yiya kwindawo entsha okanye wenze umhla omnye komnye. Izithethe ezinjalo zibopha imanyano yakho kwaye zenze ukuba iphinde iqiniseke ukuba ecaleni kwakho ngumntu ofanelekileyo.
Uthando luhlala luhlala lunomdla kunye nokuqonda omnye komnye
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Umzobo 2. Ukuqonda. Ukuba awunantlonelo yendalo, ubeke endaweni yenye inzima kakhulu. Zama ukujonga imeko ngamehlo endoda kwaye uqonde ukuba kutheni efuna ukuya kwiholide ekulobeni nabahlobo, hayi umama wakho. Lo ngumzekelo nje omnye, kusenokubakho iimeko ezininzi. Ukufumana izizathu oya kuba lula ukuchaza iingcinga zakho kwaye uxoxe ngayo yonke into.
Umzobo 3. Ibhalansi. Sukuzibekela kuphela usapho kuphela. Indoda kunye nabantwana okanye inkwenkwe kunye nesilwanyana esithandwayo sisisele sakho, kodwa hayi wena. Sukuphulukana nemida yobuqu kwaye ungabizi lonke ixesha simahla ukwanelisa iminqweno yabanye. Fumana ubuncinci iyure ukuhamba nomculo owuthandayo kwi-headsenes, yiya yedwa yedwa okanye u-odola inkqubo ye-SPA-ufuna uhlaziyo!
Umzobo 4. Ukuziqonda kakuhle. Kutheni le nto abantu basekhaya bebancinci? Ayiphelelanga kwinkululeko yezinto eziphathekayo kuphela, kodwa nakwingcinezelo yengqondo, enokuhlala ngokusisigxina ekhayeni lakho. Kubalulekile ukufumana ishishini lakho olithandayo kwaye uzame ukuphumelela kuyo. Xa amehlo akho avutha, kuba indoda uya kuhlala uyinqweneleka kwaye intanda, kuba ufuna ukolula ubushushu.
Umzobo 5. Ukwenziwa komntu. Jika u-Mamjean nyana e-brutal macho? I-ALOS, ubomi asilo ntsomi kunye ne-eliissirs yomlingo ayisebenzi apha. Indoda ecaleni kwakho ayinakuba sezingcambu zokutshintsha, kodwa iyakwazi ukusebenza kwiintsilelo ezibona kwaye zifuna ukuzilungisa. Thatha le nyaniso kwaye ungayicinezeli: Kungcono ukusebenza kumncedisi wasekhaya ukuba usasaza iisokisi, kwaye awuthandi ukuzicoca.
Sukulinda izimanga, kodwa uzicwangcise
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Umzobo 6. Ubudlelwane. Hayi, ayiyo ntombazana incinci umntu ekufuneka eyindoda emele i-pat kunye neparur. Ungumntu okhulileyo ofuna ukunika okuhle kwaye ufumane impendulo, kwaye ayonelanga ngobomi kumagxa abanye abantu. Ukuba awuboni amanyathelo kwiqabane, kodwa ufuna ukuzisa imbovelelo, lungiselela ukumangala. Kwaye uya kutshayela apho!
Umzobo 7. Hachico. Ukuzinikela kwindoda kubalulekile ukuba ichaphazela icandelo lokwabelana ngesondo lobomi bakho kunye nomnqweno wokuhamba kunye nezicwangciso eziqhelekileyo. Kodwa loo nto uzinikeleyo xa uhleli ekhaya, ulinde ukuba avela emsebenzini, okanye uCandial, kufanelekile ukuba ahambe kwenye indawo nabahlobo, eshiya yedwa kunye nam, owoyikekayo. Ke akunakwenzeka ukuphila! Ukwahlukana nomhla wakho kunye neeklasi ezintsha, fumana abahlobo kwaye uzive uzimele. Kwaye kuloo ntombazana, eyathi inkulu, ihlala ifuna ukubonakala kufutshane nawe. Ngokuqinisekileyo le ndoda iyakulungiswa ngokuqinisekileyo.