Ngaphandle kobomi obusondeleyo, akunakwenzeka ukuba wakhe ubudlelwane bexesha elide, nokuba imeko ichasene nenyani yothando. Abanye abantu abakwisibini bahlala bafunyanwa kunokutshintsha kwezesondo: Ezemidlalo, inkcubeko, umsebenzi, ukuntywila kwimpahla yempahla. Ixesha elingaphezulu, isondo linokuba sisilwanyana esikhulu kwisibini, esingaphambili okanye kamva siya kukhokelela ekubeni kungabikho nqanaba, emva koko ukupholisa ubudlelwane. Ke indlela yokwandisa inqanaba lokunyanga kwisibini sakho? Siqokelele ezona ndlela zisebenzayo iingcali zengqondo ubungcali.
Ukwanga ngakumbi
Uninzi lwabantu lungajongela phantsi ixabiso lokuqabula kwisibini: Into kukuba ngexesha lokudibana neqabane le-SALCeConse, ibhinqa elikwi-subconstal lifumana umqondiso kunye nethiyori Kuye. Ukongeza, ukuba sele ubukhona ixesha elide, ungaphoswa lityala ukukhwela iqabane, kuya kukunceda "ukuvuselela" ukuziva umangalisayo vuka.
Ungavumela iglasi enye ye wayini ngeveki
Ewe kunjalo, kusoloko kunyanzelekile ukuba ulawule isixa sexabiso lokusela utywala, kodwa yiglasi enye yewayini kunye neqabane ngokuhlwa ukubukela ifilimu ayizukukhathazeka. Njengoko i-Show Show, izibini, zivumele ubutywala obuncinci, ngakumbi babelana ngesondo kwaye zifumaneka ngcono ngolwimi oluqhelekileyo.
Uninzi lufumana isizathu sokuyeka ngesondo
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Ulonwabo lwakho aluyonto ixabisekileyo
Uninzi lwabasetyhini bahlala ngokuzithemba ngokupheleleyo ukuba kwisondo kubaluleke kakhulu ukwanelisa iqabane kunelo. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala zale ndlela, uya kulungiselela ngokupheleleyo indoda yakho, kodwa kungekudala uza kuqalisa ukufumana ukungakhethi kunye nokucaphuka xa indoda iyakukunika isondo, kuba uyayazi ukuba ilulwaneliseko wakhe. Ungaze ulibale ukuba isini kufuneka sihlangabezane neemfuno zawo omabini amaqabane, indoda yakho ifanele ithathele ingqalelo ngalo mzuzu.
Musa ukoyika ukuzama into entsha
Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ubuncinci amaxesha amaninzi ngenyanga ukutshintsha "indawo" yesondo. Ukuba uneentloni kakhulu ukwenza le nto kwitheko, zama ukuqesha igumbi lehotele okanye uhambe nohambo lwamadoda kangangeentsuku ezimbalwa. Kwakhona, musa ukuhamba ekhaya: yiya kuphumla kunye kwiklabhu okanye ukhethe kubahlobo. Kuya kubakho abanye abantu basetyhini kwinkampani, kwaye inyani yokuba indoda yakho ivavanywa ngezinto ezinokubakho, zinomdla omkhulu.