Yibani nemihlali xa ibhinqa linamathela kuwe ngemibuzo yobudenge, 'entle nokuba "kwaye" uyamthanda. " Khumbula, ufumana isiqinisekiso sokuba umhle, kwaye umfazi uyakuthanda xa ulala naye. Kuba ke unika, kwaye wena - uthatha. Xa umxelela ukuba umhle, kwaye uyamthanda, uyathatha, kwaye uyanika. Ke ngoko, bancoma imilenze, iinwele, iimpahla kwaye ngokubanzi yonke into oya kuyiphawula. Ukuba ufuna ukuphazamisa iBhanki, usoyikise into engalindelekanga, nangona amashiya, umfazi uya kubona ukunyaniseka. Nokuba ayikho.
Yibani nemihlali xa umntu obhinqileyo esithi yenze njani kwivenkile okanye indlela axaba ngayo nomhlobo wakhe. Nokuba uxela ixesha elide, rhabaxa kunye neenkcukacha ezingeyomfuneko. Kuthetha ukuba ubuthathaka, ukungakhuseleki kwaye ukucela ukuba uxhase. Khumbula kwakhona, uxelela yonke le nto ukuva ukuba "ngamalungelo", kwaye ayingabo nakuko konke ukufumanisa ukuba ichanekile njani okanye akunjalo?
Ukuba ke inkazana ikunika isiphelo sokuziphatha kwakhe; Kungenxa yokuba isizathu sokuziphatha ngendlela engaqondakaliyo kwindibano ehlekisayo- Ufuna uphawu lokufumana ingqalelo. Hug, ukwanga, nyusa intloko yakho, inikelwe ukuthatha ingubo entsha kwaye isebenzise le junk yelona nqanaba liphezulu.
Yibani nemihlali!
Uloyiko! Yoyikeka xa ibhinqa alizithengi izinto ezingafunekiyo, ayikuxeleli ukuba umntu akanamona ngelungelo lakhe, akakhwele, akayikhubeki, akanyamezeli intloko (okanye iesile) ngaphakathi Umzamo wokubetha awudingi iintshukumo kwinkangeleko yawo. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntu obhinqileyo uyanelisa ibhinqa layo "ego" ngaphandle kwakho kwaye ngokubanzi ngaphandle koncedo. Ke ngoko, qiniseka ukuba uzibuza: "Kutheni le nto ndiyifuna?" Kwaye kuya kuba kuhle, ubuzi impendulo kuye.