Okokuqala ngqa, ingxaki yengqondo yokuqonda ngabantu bomzimba wakhe wanikwa iminyaka engama-70s yenkulungwane yokugqibela. Umbutho we-NAAAPE wacwangciswa eUnited States ngeli xesha, imisebenzi yayo ibonise abemi belizwe kunye nehlabathi liphela ukuba abantu bancede bathathe imizimba yabo kwaye basombulule iingxaki zabo zekhaya. Ibinzana elithi "I-Bodipositive" ivele ngo-1996 - emva koko i-Psychotherapist Psychotherapist yengqondo, kunye nomthengi wayo, yenza indawo "umzimba onesihloko" ukuba siphucule iziphumo zonyango. Emva kweminyaka, ingekuphela intsingiselo yeli gama itshintshile, kodwa isalathiso sifumene iintlobo ezinkulu - akukho bantu bangayivanga ngale ntshukumo. Wazama ukubeka yonke into kwiindawo kunye nolwimi oludumileyo ukuchaza ukuba kukho "umzimba ongugqirha" kunye nezityholo zayo.
Ihambe phi
Ngeminyaka yee-1850-900s, kwaqhutywa i-wave yobufazi bokuqala xa abafazi benziwa ekuhleni ukwala iimpahla eziyingozi. Okokuqala, babiza ukuhlawula i-corsets faka i-corsets abakwaziyo ukudala isinqe esihle. Kwangelo xesha, amabhinqa alwa nethuba lokunxiba ibhulukhwe kwi-par kunye namadoda - ngoku kubonakala ngathi sisihle kakhulu, kodwa ke loo nto injalo ifuna kakhulu ekutshintsheni umbono wakho. Kwiminyaka engama-60 e-United States yelungelo labantu, abantu abadumileyo baqala ukuthetha ngaphandle komzimba wabo. Isithuba esinobuhlobo serediyo sanikezela abantu iifom ezingezo meko ezingekho mgangathweni zokuqokelela kwiPrint Park yokuxoxa ngengxaki. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu kamva, umbhali uLua wakho wokugcina uLungisa awavumayo ukuba ixesha elide lagxeka inkosikazi yakhe ngenxa yokuba abantu baguqukele kwabanye.
Ibukeka kangakanani
"Iqela elinezinto ezifudumeleyo" lahlulahlulwe lazikhombazo ezahlukeneyo kwaye aliphelelanga ekuphumleni ukugqibelela. Yenzelwe isimo sengqondo esithandekayo ngomzimba womnye umntu, ukwamkelwa komzimba waso kwaye kutshintshe kunye naye. Ke i-jeensifer uJennifer Aniston ngaphezulu kokuqatshelwe kudliwanondlebe, olungamkeliyo ukuncoma ngokubonakala xa kuthelekiswa nobudala. Ezinye iinkwenkwezi ziye zakhalaza ziye zayeka ukuvavanya abantu ngeminyaka kwaye zinyanga ukwaluphala njengenkqubo yendalo, hayi intlekele. Ngokuthe ngcembe, kungekuphela nje inani eliguqulweyo kwigama elithi "bosipopositive", kodwa nelungelo lomntu lokulawula umzimba wabo - i-shairstyle okanye engazichebeli iinwele, nokuba yenze i-varnish kwizipikili kwaye nangokunjalo. Ngapha koko, le ndawo ayisebenzi kubafazi, kodwa nangamadoda. Ukushwankathela isiphumo sexeshana, unokuthi ngokuzithemba ukuba eyona njongo ye "Brodiposive" - susa i-stereotypes.
Ukuba umntu uziva ekhululekile, akanyanzelekanga ukuba aphulukane nobunzima
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Yintoni esilindeleyo kwixesha elizayo
Ukuhamba 'kwe-bodipositive "ivuma ukuba ubuhle buyilo loluntu nje. Kuyenzeka ukuba ulandelele le nto imigangatho ebekwe ngayo amaqela ahlukeneyo- ezinye zawo iya kuba ngamazinyo amhlophe amhlophe kunye namabele amhlophe, nakwabanye, intamo ende kwaye intamo inde kwaye inyibilike. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba umbono wobuhle kukoyisa ukuba ayinakwenzeka, kodwa kungenzeka ukuba udale imeko yolwazi apho abantu abayi kukhuthaza ukuba bakhuphe lo mkhwa, banciphise inzala kwiimpawu zangaphandle nje. Ekubeni kwaloo ndlela ifana kwaloo ndlela ihambelane nabantu abakhubazekileyo okanye kwiziphene zokuzalwa, kunokwenzeka ukuba i-Dozen kwiminyaka kamva, abantu baya kuba nobubele kwaye bavuleleke omnye komnye.