UGqr Sciences weDyunivesithi yaseCalgary Chitter uthethile: Nabantwana abancinci bayazi ngokwesini, kodwa kuphela ngemo eyahlukileyo. " Ewe, inkqubo yokufikisa komntwana iqala ngokubhekisele ekuzalweni - ngokuchukumisa isifuba sikaMama kunye nokungafuni ukunxiba ukuhamba. Ngobudala, ukutya ngokwesondo kufumana ezinye iindlela ngokusekwe ekufumaneni kolwazi kwimeko esondeleyo kunye neencwadi ezizodwa. Ukuba ngumzali, kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni kwaye akufuneki izenze ukuphakamisa umntwana okhankanyiweyo nongashukumiyo.
UPaul Rupening uqala ngokoqobo kwasekuzalweni
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UKUQALA NGOKUGQIBELA
Ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzalwa, ukwazi umntwana akukafiki yimithetho yokuziphatha eluntwini, aya kuba kwiminyaka elandelayo. Oogqirha baye baphinda bathi umnqweno womntwana kukufunda komzimba wakhe akufuneki ukuba ucinge njengokuphambuka kuphuhliso lwalo. Ngaphantsi kweminyaka emi-4, kuba abantwana ngokwendalo bachukumisa iindawo zabo ezisondeleyo, nakubantu; umnqweno wokuchukumisa u-mama okanye abanye abantu basetyhini; Qwalasela ngononophelo imizimba yabanye abantu xa umntwana ewa kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke. Ungamxeleli umntwana ukuba afunde kwaye ujonge abanye-ayinamandla, kungenjalo uchaswa ngumzimba wakhe kwasebudeni. Kungcono ukuphendula imibuzo yendalo malunga nokuba kutheni imizimba yamakhwenkwe namantombazana ayahluka. Ukuba awunakuzichaza ngokwakho, fune uncedo kuncwadi-ngoku kukho iincwadi ezintle ngesi sihloko sabantwana abaneminyaka eyahlukeneyo.
Shiya indawo yabucala
Kwiminyaka emi-4 ukuya kwengama-6, abantwana babonisa umdla ngakumbi kubaphathi babo ngokwesini, kodwa kodwa abayazi into ayibizwayo. Musa ukumthintela umntwana ukuba azifunde, kodwa acacisa ukuba ungakwenzi oku ebantwini. Nokuba ungcono, ukuba uxela nge-anatomy yobume boomabhinqileyo kunye namadoda amadoda kumzekelo wemizobo yesikimo kwaye ucacisa iziseko zemfundo yezesondo. Umzekelo, ukuba angamchukumisa yena, okanye abantu abasondeleyo ngexesha lenkqubo yempilo kunye nogqirha ngexesha lokuhlolwa. Ewe sisihloko esinzima, kodwa ukuvala amehlo kunye nethemba lommangaliso. Ngokutsho kwe-WHO, malunga ne-20% yamantombazana kunye ne-5-10% yamakhwenkwe aphantsi kobundlobongela ebuntwaneni. Ngcono, ukuba uwela kuwe kwaye uchaze imithetho yokhuseleko lwabantwana.
Ukuba bekungakulungelanga ukuzithetha, fundela ukufunda incwadi kunye nomntwana
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Funda ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo
Ukucacisa imibuzo yokupapasha, zama ukuthetha ngokwendalo kwaye ungabonakali iimvakalelo eziqaqambileyo. Yihleka imibuzo yomntwana okanye ihlebeze kumxholo wokuvuthwa-hayi owona ntweni. Kwiminyaka eyi-7 ukuya kweli-12, abantwana sele benomdla ngakumbi kwisihloko sokufikisa, nto leyo eboniswa njengemidlalo ene-sublegx yesini-uqhelekile kuye wonke umntu "ibhotile" nabanye. Kwiminyaka eyi-13 ukuya kweli-12, abantwana baqala ukubonisa umdla kwisini esahlukileyo. Musa ukoyika ukuqalisa ukuthetha nomntwana okwishumi elivisayo ukuba kutheni abantu besini, indlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kwaye yeyiphi imigaqo ekufuneka ikhokelwe ekuqaleni kobomi besini. Ngokutsho kwenethiwekhi yeSizwe yoMsebenzi woNyango, kutsha lwakutshanje kwabaselula baseMelika, abantwana abayi-9 kwabali-10 bathi kuya kuba lula ukuba bangenzi lula intsebenzo kwaye bakhusele ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo ukuba banokuthi "nabazali babo kwezi zihloko.
Ngaba unayo imfundo yezesondo nomntwana wakho ngencoko kunye neencoko zobuqu? Bhala uluvo lwakho kwizimvo ezingezantsi.