Isondo kwaoko yaba yimeko eqhelekileyo kule minyaka mihlanu idlulileyo: Ngoku akukho mntu akayi kumangalisa ibali malunga neqabane, kodwa ekuseni ebesele ndiphumelele. Nangona kunjalo, abanye basasoyikisa ukuthatha isigqibo malunga nokuvavanywa okufanayo nendoda engaqhelekanga. Siza kukunceda uthathe isigqibo esifanelekileyo, kwaye unike ingcebiso kwabo sele sele ecwangcisa ukubaluleka kwexesha elifutshane kungekudala.
Akukho sini esigqithisileyo
Ewe, i-send nomntu omtsha ayithethi ukuba inyanzelekile, ngakumbi ukuba uvumile kwintlanganiso enye kuphela, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba uziqhelanise nobuhlungu obucacileyo okanye imikhwa enobunzima bomntu okokuqala. Akukho siqinisekiso sokuba iqabane elitsha nguMthandi onobuchule onokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwesondo.
Sebenzisa izicelo
Ngaba awuzibandakanyi iintlanganiso, kodwa ungachasene neentlanganiso ezimfutshane ezisondeleyo? Akukho mfuneko yokuba ugqithisele "iNkosana" kwi-Bar Counter, sebenzisa izicelo ezikhethekileyo ezivele nje. Eyona nto iphambili kukuqinisekisa ukuba ulindelo lwakho ngeqabane elitsha i-conccide.
Fowunela iteksi ngokwakho
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Jonga iintlanganiso ngaphandle kwengxabano
Ibhinqa elithi "Ukubamba" indoda ebhafini libonwa kwangoko ukuba uninzi lwamatyala amaqabane anamahlakani. Rhola, ekugqibeleni, nokuba awufumani neqabane ngokuhlwa, uya kuchitha ngokuhlwa kakuhle, ngakumbi ukuba bekungawedwa, kodwa nomhlobo. I "gwenxa" ijongeka itsalela umnxeba kuphela ngokungeyomfuneko kuwe kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayizukutsala umntu onesidima.
Cwangcisa yonke "elunxwemeni"
Masithi uqhelene nendoda emnandi, iya kubiza iteksi kwaye ihambe kuye, kwaye loo mntu wafikelela wedwa, kwaye izicwangciso zakhe zibandakanya. Ngequbuliso. Umfazi ofutshane kule meko kunzima ukuthi "hayi", kodwa akafuni omnye umfazi okanye indoda ebhedini. Veza ubunzima, faka iimeko zakho kwaye akuvumelani ukuba awuyi kuvuyisa.
Ukuya kubani?
Kwinto yokuqala "indlwane" uya kuziva uzithembile, kwaye unike ingxelo kwimeko yento lula. Nangona kunjalo, zilungiselele ukuba iqabane eliqhubekayo linokubanjwa kunye nawe, eliya kuba librasha ekhaya. Ukuba awudingi ngokulandelayo, yiya kuyo, kodwa kusasa ngokwakho fowunela iteksi ukuze ungabukhanyisi idilesi yakho.
Ungalibali ngokhuseleko
Mhlawumbi eyona ngongoma iphambili. Ubona umntu okokuqala owaziyo ukuba yeyiphi na eyaziyo into "yokumangaliswa". Uya kukushiya emva kobusuku bothando. Nokuba usebenzisa i-upraceraceples, qiniseka ukuba uthenge iikhondom, njengeentsholongwane kwaye usulelo alusosikhumbuzo esingcono sokuhlwa.