Ndineengcebiso ezi-3 ezisebenzayo kwabo bakulungele ukuya ngaphaya kwe-stereotypes yempahla yokunxiba:
1. Ndihlala ndiva ezivenkileni kwaye kubathengi bakho ukukholelwa ukuba imihombiso ikhethwe ngombala kwiimpahla. Ndiqinisekile ukuba lo mbhiyozo wobomi uya kuba ngabafazi abaninzi ngeblue, ngezixhobo eziluhlaza, kunye ne-makeup, umzekelo, isithunzi esiluhlaza, e-eyeliner, njl.
Ndicebisa ukuba ukhethe umbophelelo owongezelelweyo wombala oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka (ngokwesangqa semibala y. I-Ytten) - I-orenji. Ewe, okuninzi kuxhomekeke kubungakanani belaphu apho impahla yakho yenziwe khona. Ukuba isinxibo okanye ibhlawuzi kwilaphu eligudileyo, lithathe umnqumo weglasi, umzekelo. Kwakhona, i-gewelry yegolide okanye intsimbi etyheli ilungele ngokugqibeleleyo umbala ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka - umbala wegolide uya kwenza enye indlela iorenji.
Isangqa se-y.itten. Ifoto ngumbhali.
2. Kukho umxholo onje "njengombala wemibala". Ukukhokelwa yile mgaqo, unokwenza imibala enobunzima kunye nemibala emnandi. Ke, umbala ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka unetyheli kwaye luhlaza. Ngokuhambelana, kwiblue, kunye nemibala, le mibala iya kuba ngabahlobo abalungileyo.
3. Unokuthatha imibala i-iquations yokukhetha izixhobo, kodwa kukho ukhetho olungathethekiyo. Oko, yonke impahla yakhe ikhutshiwe ikwindlela yokuba xa ukuxuba imibala kublowu. Umzekelo, ingubo eluhlaza kunye nokuhombisa okutyheli okanye ngokuchaseneyo. Okanye wenze iseti ye-skirt eluhlaza kunye neblouse ityheli kwaye uyihombise ngokumiswa kwe-laconion eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye namacici. Kwingubo enjalo uya kuba lolona lwwokomelelayo kwaye ungalibaleki. Abo Bakhawulezayo ngombala baya kuyixabisa indlela onokuthi ngayo, kwaye abanye banokubangela ingcebiso njengomntu onesibindi nozenze isigqibo.
Yiba mhle kuNyaka oMtsha, musa ukoyika ukuma ngaphandle kwaye ulandele indlela yakho ukuya kubuhle kunye nesitayile.
UNyaka oMnandi woNyaka kuwe!
I-Karina Effimova, ingcali ekudalweni kweWadi ye-Ward