"Ebomini bam ndazama kakhulu ngeenwele. Njengayo nayiphi na intombazana eyilayo, ndazama ukufumana umfanekiso wam, ndizifumane. Kwaye ndakulungele ukuzama. Asinguye wonke umntu onokuthi azi, kodwa ndifunde kumyili wefashoni. Kwaye esi sifundo sinegalelo, kunjalo, ukuba ndingahlala nditshintsha i-hairstyle. Ndinemibala yeenwele eyahlukeneyo, iinwele, nokuba rhabaxa. Konke oku kukhokelele kwinto yokuba kube kanye kufuneka ndichebe phantsi komatshini, kuba ndibulele iimvavanyo zam kwaphela. Kodwa ndiyasithanda isiphumo, ngokungaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo, kwaye nditsho ndiskisha iinwele zam kamva izihlandlo ezininzi, kodwa kwakulula ngokubhekisele kwinkathalo yeenwele, "watsho uIrina Zabyaka.
"Xa ufunda kumgcini weenwele, andithethi ukuba ndibanjwa. Oku akubandakanyi iinwele, ukuba ngaba umfundi akafuni ukusika. Ixesha elide lahlawulelwa iibhulukhwe ezincinci Ukufumana i-chemicling. Ukuziqhelanisa nokuziqhelanisa iiyure ezi-3-4 kwaye lonke eli xesha, sizijikisile ezi zinto zi-6 cm, ububanzi obuyi-5 mm. Kwakuyimfuneko ukwahlula iinwele ukuya kwimimandla. Ke apha, yonke le nkqubo ibibuhlungu, iinwele, ephepheni, ndikhumbula kakhulu. Ndikhumbula, ndandikundikhumbula, bendikundikhumbula, bendikufutshane bohlwaywe kwaye basuswe ekusebenzeni ngeveki. Sat, ihlungulu ibanjiwe. (Uncumile.)
Into ebendijongeka ngathi ndiyinto eqaqambileyo, umntu mhlawumbi esoyika, kwaye umntu waphoxeka. Akukho namnye kwabanye abantu endibaziyo ukuba bendiya kuba yimpumelelo yeveki, bendingenalo ixesha lokuyiqhela. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo bendilula, kumnandi. Andikhathali ukuba ngubani ocinga ngale nto, njengalo mntu okanye hayi. Nangona kucacile ukuba ayiyiyo yonke into eyandithathayo. Ndikhumbula xa inqunyulwe phantsi komatshini, umama wandibizela "iRiphabliki yeSCID". Kanye nge-geltlub, apho ndandinentloko ye-bald, kwi-jean kunye ne-t-shirt, ndamkelwa kumqolo wam ngenxa yomfo. Hug valed ixhego elinxibileyo. Kusekho ityala kwibhafu. Yayiluhambo lwam lokuqala lokuhlamba esidlangalaleni. Kwaye, ngendlela yokugqibela. (Ukuhleka.) Intombazana itsaliwe apho. Ndihambile ndanxiba iimpahla kwisebe labasetyhini, umakazi waqala ukuncwina kwaye ufihle. Yayihlekisa. Ewe, kucacile: Bambalwa abantu abagawulayo, "imvumi iyaqhubeka.
"Ndiyakholelwa ukuba akukho nto imbi kakhulu ngotshintsho"
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"Ewe, ndiyakuthanda ukutshintsha, kwaye mhlawumbi ndayothusa umntu ngale nto, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba akukho nto imbi kakhulu kutshintsho. Ukuba uyayifuna kwaye ufuna, kutheni kungenjalo? Obu bubomi bakho. Utshintsho lwangaphandle aluyi kutshintsha umlinganiswa wakho, kodwa ihlala iphakamisa imeko, intlawulo, ikhuthaze. Emva kokuba zonke iimvavanyo zobutsha, ndikhethe umbala obomvu kwaye ndaphakamisa iinwele ezinde, ezaziba yinxalenye yesitayile sam sangoku. Ndiziva ndikhululekile kule, ngelixa ingatsali. Xa umntu evuthwa, yena, ewe, kwaba lula ukuzithabathela. Ngobudala, umnqweno wokutshintsha inkangeleko yokutshintsha kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukongeza apha loo nto, ukuzama ukutshintsha ngaphandle, ungalibali malunga notshintsho lwangaphakathi. Kuya kufuneka uzisebenzele, ngeengcinga zakho, iintshukumo. Kwaye andizange ndiqinisekile. Uninzi luhlala luvela umnqweno wokuthenga into entsha okanye utshintsha into ngembonakalo, nokuba yi-hairstyle okanye utyando. Olo tshintsho, ngokuqinisekileyo, luphakamisa imeko, yenza imvakalelo yolonwabo, ukuzithemba. Kodwa emva kwethutyana, yonke into idlula rhoqo. Kubonakala kum ukuba umhlaba wethu wangaphakathi ufuna utshintsho olukhulu, kodwa ingqondo yethu ibona le meko yokoqobo, kwaye ke siqala ukutshintsha imbonakalo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uzitshintsha ngaphakathi, olu lonwabo luya kuba lude. Intle, ukuba yinto efanayo, ehlala nee-gockrois zangaphambili, linda utshintsho, ukunxiba ingubo entsha. Kodwa, ukuba uyatshintsha ngaphakathi, hlaziya kwaye unxibe-la nantsi ingcaciso. Umzekelo, udiniwe ngentlonelo yomsebenzi wakho, kwisicaphucaphu. Uthenga ngenene isinxibo esitsha okanye utshintshe i-hairstyle, umfanekiso, uya konwaba kwaye ulula, kodwa umsebenzi ongafuneki. Ixesha elingaphezulu, isinxibo esitsha sibadala, kwaye yonke into esebomini bakho ihlala ifana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uthatha amanyathelo aphezulu ehlabathi jikelele kwaye utshintsha umsebenzi wakho, uya kuya kolu Bomi abaNtsha kwingubo entsha-apha uya kuba neziphumo zokwenyani. Kodwa ngokubanzi, rhoqo utshintsho olufanele ukuya nzulu, umzekelo, ukuxhalabisa ukuqonda kwethu kwehlabathi elijikelezileyo. Xa uluvo lwakho lutshintsha, ubomi ngokwalo lutshintsha. I-I-Iriirstyle iphezulu kuphela yeqhwa, "utshilo urina zyaka.
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