Kwimilongiwe yam, kusoloko kukho amatyala xa amabhinqa aselula, emhle kwaye enomtsalane, phakamisa imibuzo yokuba amadoda abo ayinamntu,
Banyamalala ixesha elide, sukuqhelanisa nabahlobo, musa ukubabelana ngezicwangciso zabo, kuba iiholide zinika izipho eziphantsi njenge-gesi yegumbi okanye i-gesh yeshawari yomgangatho we-HIAD.
Kodwa sikwindawo yokuqala yolwalamano lwethu kuphela "," mhlawumbi, ngoku, ngoku sinobunzima, "isipho asibalulekanga," asitsali, kuba sixakekile "," mhlawumbi sixakeke "," mhlawumbi Wayeyimfuneko nje ukuba ahambe? " Kwaye esinye isigidi sezizathu zezenzo ezenziweyo kakhulu ngabafazi abanjalo. Abaqondi ukuba kutheni iqabane labo alikholelwa ukuba banolwalamano: Bayakukhetha ukuba banxibelelane, naye nabani na ovela kwimimandla yabo abayi kuthi baqonde, funda iincwadi " Abafazi ngokwabo,
Kodwa yonke le nto ayisebenzi!
Nokuba ungakanani umntu obhinqileyo, njengengu-Hostess, inkosikazi enobuchule, umhlolili onobuchule kunye nesizathu sokuba umntu akhawuleze akhawuleze abe nokubiza ngokuba nobudlelwane.
Ngendlela, njengommiselo, aba bafazi baphumelele ebomini, nokuba bahlala kwizikhundla eziphezulu. Kwaye xa abaphantsi kwabo, oogxa babo okanye amaqabane baqala ngokuziphatha kangangemigca yabo - baxoka, bangavumi, abanye abafazi abangaphantsi, bahlukumeza abo baphantsi okanye benamaqabane anjalo. Kodwa kubomi bakhe obuqu, amandla okuphumla ecaleni kwecala alinamandla kwaye ayimfuneko.
Ke yintoni eqhuba abafazi abanjalo?
1. Ukholo kwinto yokuba bengasebenzi kakuhle ngokwaneleyo ukuze bafumane ulonwabo lwabo. Ukuba baya eqongeni lomsebenzi, bazibekela imisebenzi yekhonkrithi, babingelela into egameni lomsebenzi, batyalwa ngokwabo, emva koko izithuba zabo zithathwa njengezingaqhelekanga. Ngamadoda, bazama ukwenza imodeli efanayo eyakhokelela kwimpumelelo. Uthando kunye nokusondela kufanelekile kwaye kuchazwe. Ke ngoko, abafazi kunzima ukuzityalela ngokwabo, baphuhlise amanye amazwe aphezulu ababhinqileyo okanye ubuchule bokugqibela inkosikazi yakhe kunye nonina. Abafazi abanjalo bakholelwa ukuba ngokwabo abalunganga ukuba bathandwa kwaye kuphela.
2. Ithemba lento yokuba le ndoda inokuthi ikhulule, ityhafile. Abafazi abanjalo bayakholelwa ukuba kungekudala baya kufumana isitshixo sentliziyo yomntu. Ukuba eli tyala kukuba babejonge kakubi. Phantse kukhanyela ukuba akazange ayeke, akazange awe eluthandweni, afumana ukhetho olukhethekileyo aze alilinde iqabane elinomdla ngakumbi. Le ngcinga ilula ayenzeki. Isondla siba yithemba lokuba kungekudala, uya kuthanda, kuyimfuneko kuphela ukunyibilikisa intliziyo yakhe ngokuchanekileyo. Ngaba uyakukhumbula i-fairy tale malunga nokumkanikazi wekhephu? Kuyo, intombi kaGerrd yadlula kubo bonke ububi bukaMnimo wakhe uKai, wanika ukumkanikazi ngokwakhe kwaye wayithoba i-themation yentliziyo eqaqambileyo yenkwenkwe. Ke ngoku ndixelele ukuba ngubani ongakholelwa kuyo? Ngubani ongathethekiyo umntu obandayo kunye noCysical into yokuba "inyani yile yokuba wenza amaxesha amaninzi kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ngoku akukho lula ukuthanda. Kodwa ndiya kulinda xa kusenzeka, ndiya kuba kufuphi. " Intsomi ifana ne-hypnosis. Mangaphi amabhinqa akholelwa kwi-mefaprer yakhe, endaweni yokuba ajonge ngokucacileyo imeko kwaye ajonge inyani yokuba le ndoda ayisiyiyo inketho yakho.
3. Ngapha koko, abafazi abanjalo bayoyika umlilo wobudlelwane obusondeleyo! Le yimfihlakalo enkulu! Ukungafihlisi, ukulungisa okungenamfazi ukuya kulwalamano ngokupheleleyo kweli gama kubonakaliswa kukhetho lwamaqabane alo. Bona, njengasesipilini, babonisa ukuba eneneni, babonisa ukuba ubudlelwane abunyanzelekanga ukuba bakwazi ukutyeshelwa ukuba ubudlelwane obugcweleyo abukalungelanga ukuba ulwe lulwalamano luzele ngokupheleleyo, ke leyo loo madoda. Ayikho malunga nabo. Ityala likulo themba lokuthandabuza, uloyiko lwentlungu, uloyiko lokuphulukana nenkululeko yabo okanye ezinye iibhonasi ezikubomi bodwa nobomi basimahla. Ke ngoko, abafazi kulula ukudibana namadoda angafanelekanga, abonelele, alwela uthando, inxalenye kwaye ujonge abagqatswa abatsha abangathandiyo! Lo mzabalazo unceda ukuphila ngokunentsingiselo: "Emva kwayo yonke loo nto," ndikhangela i-satellite yobomi bam "," ndikhangela ubudlelwane bobudlelwane. "
Abafazi abadiniweyo ngohlobo lwemidlalo enjalo, lixesha lokuhlaziya isimo sengqondo kubo. Jonga ukuba zeziphi iintsomi malunga nawe nothando ebomini bakho bayakholelwa. Zezi ntsomi zenyani ekugqibeleni. Kwaye ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, funda ukudala ubudlelwane buzaliswe bunike ingqalelo, ukhathalelo kunye nesisa. Kwaye ungachithi ixesha ngonxibelelwano alunamxholo oyimfuneko.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin