Ngayo nayiphi na intombazana eye yeye nqanaba, ukukhulelwa luvavanyo olunzulu lwendawo yokuhlala kunye nengqondo yengqondo. Ngokomndilili, ukukhulelwa okokuqala kwenzeka phakathi kweminyaka eli-15 neli-17. Imeko, yitsho kakuhle, ukoyikeka. Kodwa kutheni iqhubeka kwaye ungayithintela njani le meko. Siza kuzama ukufumanisa.
Thetha nentombi yam, yenzakalisa ubomi bakhe
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Ukukhulelwa kubude
Vumelani, abafundi bale mihla kwizikolo eziphakamileyo zahlukile kwaphela kubafundi bethu abafunda nabo kunye nawe, ababavumela ukuba badibane namakhwenkwe, kodwa besenza umbono wegatya lesikolo esiqhelekileyo. Ngoku kukho utyekelo xa amabanga eshumi-mantombazana ajongeka njengabantu abadala abaye babona amantombazana. Akumangalisi ukuba amakhwenkwe akhula aneminyaka yobudala babo nangaphezulu anokwazi ukuba yintombazana embalwa. Rhoqo, amantombazana amancinci ayakonwabela oku, ulibale ngeengozi zokuziphatha.
Indoda endala ayizange idibane nobudlelwane obukhulu kunye nesikolo, ukuba, kunjalo, uyindoda engenangqondo, elona ndoda inokuthi lenzeke kwimbopheleleko yolwaphulo-mthetho, njengoko kungqinelwe ngu-a Ibali lakutshanje, ukhubaza kwenye yeendlela eziphambili.
Ingxaki yokukhulelwa kwangoko ijongene neenkcukacha-manani, amazwe aphuhlileyo: Kwindawo yokuqala yiRussia, nokuba lusizi kangakanani.
Izizathu
Kukho lonke uluhlu lwezizathu esikumema ukuba uziqhelanise:
Ukunqongophala kokupapashwa
Kule meko, luxanduva ngokupheleleyo ukuba ngabazali, abasekunene azange balawule ukukhula komntwana. IPoland iqala ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-12 ubudala, okanye kwangolo xesha, okwangoku, okwangoku, kubalulekile ukuchaza umntwana yonke imingcipheko yokuqala kwesiqalo sobomi besini. Akukho sidingo soyikisa kwaye thintela, ke unomdla ngakumbi kumntwana ngolwazi ngale nqanaba lobomi. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na konke konke, xelela ngemithetho yokhuselo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ukuze okungenani ngale ndlela ukukhusela intombi yakho kwiziphumo.
Inkululeko
Ngandlel 'ithile, le nto ilandela ukusuka ekuqaleni. Kodwa umahluko kuphela kukuba akukho tyala lubaluleke kakhulu lwabazali, kuba umntu ngamnye uyakhula ngendlela yayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba axele ukuba yeyiphi na indlela eya kufunyanwa ngayo umntwana wakho. Kule meko, ungazama ukuthetha nentombi yam, zama ukutshintsha ingqalelo kwezinye, ubudala ofanelekileyo ngakumbi.
Sukuyishiya yedwa, vumela umntwana wakho azive inkxaso
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Ukukhulelwa okucwangcisiweyo
Ingaqhelekanga, kodwa ngokufuthi ishumi elivisayo iye kwinyathelo elinjalo. Bagcwele iimvakalelo, bafuna ukudibanisa ngokupheleleyo neqabane, kubandakanya nokuzisa icandelo eliqhelekileyo kwihlabathi. Intombazana eselula ayiqondi ukuba kungenxa yezizathu zoqoqosho nezengqondo azinakuba ngumama. Kwakhona, abazali kufuneka banikezele ukuba bangenelele kwixesha lotshintsho lwexeshana, ukuze iziphumo azikukumangalisa.
Ukukhulelwa okuphambili
Okokuqala, umama oselula ngokwawo uhlala ephila ixesha labantwana, kwanakweli nqanaba lokugqibela. Akazange enze njengoMntu, akazange afumane imfundo egqitywe kwaye akakulungelanga ubomi bokuzimela.
Ukusuka kwinqanaba lokujonga i-filology, ukuzalwa komntwana kwangoko kunokubulala kwaye kulwelwe nguMama, kunye nomntwana, kuba umzimba awukasenziwa ngokupheleleyo.
Ndixelele ngayo yonke imingcipheko yokuzalwa komntwana kwangoko
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Ungathintela njani ukukhulelwa kwangoko
Lumka kwintombazana leyo, yenzakalisa ubomi bakhe kwaye ungamvumeli ukuba azive elilolo, kuba uninzi loomama abanobutshaba abangabakho ngqwalaselo nobushushu bosapho, bazabalazela ukukhula, nokuba kunjalo Ukuxinana. Khumbula ukuba kuphela, abazali, banoxanduva lomntwana wabo.